All categories - 19 September 2006

Hi,
Ive got a 20 month old baby girl, she is amazing and I love her to bits but during her birth I suffered badly, I ended up being rushed for an emergency c-section, the numbness had not gone deep enough so I felt them operating on me, so they then had to knock me out to deliver her, when they where operating my left lung collapsed and I ended up spending the first few hours away from her in intensive care.

I didnt bond with her at all, couldnt breast feed, and ended up with severe post natal depression afterwards for the first 8 months of her life.

Ive recovered with great help and support from my fiance and family and great friends, and were as close as can be now, but its getting to the stage when Id like to consider having a little brother or sister for her and Im worried.

Not so much that the same thing with the birth will happen - as ive since spoke with the consultant - but that I wont bond with the new baby, and how I'll cope.

Any advice? I would like another

2006-09-19 01:33:03 · 20 answers · asked by Hannah 4 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

The transmission works, except overdrive will not work unless the vehicle is already moving. Any suggestions?

2006-09-19 01:32:53 · 2 answers · asked by Velociraptor 5 in Maintenance & Repairs

I've just finished one and am looking for a good read, but am all out of suggestions..

2006-09-19 01:32:49 · 23 answers · asked by alastairwauchope 1 in Books & Authors

What is a dynamo and how does it work, how does it benefit us humans. Note: Please do not give a detailed explaination because i'm just 12. Thanks.

2006-09-19 01:32:49 · 4 answers · asked by 3vilMTV 2 in Engineering

I need root treatment but my dentist said it may not work and it costs 189.99 !!

2006-09-19 01:32:46 · 20 answers · asked by Rachel H 1 in Dental

Should the front tires be small or large for trail riding?

2006-09-19 01:32:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cars & Transportation

Have you ever wondered if everywhere you go, a camera is always watching? The cameras are invading our privacy and some people get distresed at being watched. Could they make a law in which you can decide if you can be watched or not by a CCTV camera?
We know well that cameras are there to protect us and ensure us, but isn't it going a bit far?????
Where is our privacy?????

2006-09-19 01:32:24 · 12 answers · asked by lpetela 2 in Law Enforcement & Police

I think it would be nice to see history being made , but if terrorist hate us now because we believe in women's right's wouldnt we be asking for trouble if Hillary Clinton was our first female president? I think everyone should have a right to be what they want ( within the law) but does anyone else think this may bring another 9/11 just because we have a woman president? (If she run's and win's) Just a thought. Any opinion's?

2006-09-19 01:32:19 · 14 answers · asked by bigmommanova 3 in Polls & Surveys

2006-09-19 01:32:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

Hi,
Ive got a 20 month old baby girl, she is amazing and I love her to bits but during her birth I suffered badly, I ended up being rushed for an emergency c-section, the numbness had not gone deep enough so I felt them operating on me, so they then had to knock me out to deliver her, when they where operating my left lung collapsed and I ended up spending the first few hours away from her in intensive care.

I didnt bond with her at all, couldnt breast feed, and ended up with severe post natal depression afterwards for the first 8 months of her life.

Ive recovered with great help and support from my fiance and family and great friends, and were as close as can be now, but its getting to the stage when Id like to consider having a little brother or sister for her and Im worried.

Not so much that the same thing with the birth will happen - as ive since spoke with the consultant - but that I wont bond with the new baby, and how I'll cope.

Any advice? I would like another

2006-09-19 01:32:07 · 14 answers · asked by Hannah 4 in Toddler & Preschooler

2006-09-19 01:32:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Celebrities

if the answer is no, can you explain all the reported sightings of ghosts etc?

2006-09-19 01:32:04 · 37 answers · asked by The Way 4 in Psychology

i really wan to boost it so pls help me... im tired of being shy... ^^ thnx! God bLess!!!

2006-09-19 01:31:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Quotations

Regardless of the answer, I see a strong trend to only give thought (?) to answers that confirm the askers point of view. Why bother asking? Are so many people on this site so insecure with their beliefs that they need constant confirmation of them? I know it is temping to "award" somebody that marches lock-step with your beliefs, but isn't the whole point of asking questions, and recieving answers, to learn? Perhaps modify your interpretation of the world? If not, are you simply practicing mental masterbation?

2006-09-19 01:31:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics

Besides the organization and groups, what's the real difference between any teachings of any religion and good ol' philosophy?

2006-09-19 01:31:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

Only for guys, am I on wrong path?
I was born in Hindu family. I am in college and staying with my friend in hostel. He is also Hindu.

One day while we were in toilet, I discovered he is like Muslim. I wanted to discuss with him, but due to shyness, I couldn't.

From that day (1 week back) I started pulling my skin back and keeps under undie and whenever it comes forward, I keep it back. But it keeps me excited and same time happy, and always gets erected.

Color of “supara” is also changed.

But, I am not able to study properly. Sleep is also getting disturbed. What should I do?

Just wanted to know, how many Indian guys do like this.

Am I on wrong path?

2006-09-19 01:31:27 · 21 answers · asked by Hemant G 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 01:31:24 · 2 answers · asked by AB 1 in Printers

2006-09-19 01:31:23 · 8 answers · asked by Naitik p 1 in Laptops & Notebooks

2006-09-19 01:31:08 · 11 answers · asked by Crystal 1 in Women's Health

You were invisible??

2006-09-19 01:31:06 · 23 answers · asked by dollbaby 4 in Polls & Surveys

...with no strings attached?

2006-09-19 01:31:04 · 6 answers · asked by hskya 1 in Music

which is the better choice between the cybershot R1 and the sony A100 series.

2006-09-19 01:30:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Cameras

were you starstruck?

2006-09-19 01:30:33 · 90 answers · asked by Anonymous in Celebrities

Well, to all the girls out there, would you slap my face till it turns red if I ask u to ??

Would love to hear ur replies (and if u r interested to slap, and u live in the UAE then contact me :P)

2006-09-19 01:30:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need help finding a loving home for my dog.. he is an 8 month old Jack Russell Terrier..he is wonderful i just cant keep him anymore i have 5 children in the house and he is full of so much energy i have a full time job and he needs to be with someone who is going to give him all the time in the world. Yes the kids love him but we get home late and he hasnt even had time to run and play.. anyone have any good advise on this and where do you think i can post him...

2006-09-19 01:30:26 · 12 answers · asked by barbie c 2 in Dogs

I met her at university and she is going back to her home country in two weeks time. So the gift has to be great but at the same time small and light enough for her to carry back.

2006-09-19 01:30:21 · 9 answers · asked by lancse 1 in Friends

2006-09-19 01:30:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dogs

2006-09-19 01:30:14 · 3 answers · asked by Dee Dee 1 in Television

Are You Born Again?

(Joh 3:3) Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.
(Joh 3:4) Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born?
(Joh 3:5) Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and {of} the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.
(Joh 3:6) That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.
(Joh 3:7) Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again.
(Joh 3:8) The wind bloweth where it listeth, and thou hearest the sound

2006-09-19 01:30:12 · 21 answers · asked by ? 4 in Religion & Spirituality

2006-09-19 01:30:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Science