All categories - 19 September 2006

sidharth sankar sahoo birth 29th dec 1982 time 6.22 stardust -gemini how long days my marriage possible is it love or arrenged ? near or distance?

2006-09-19 22:52:01 · 3 answers · asked by gita p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-19 22:51:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Computer Networking

I've searched for hours. I've searched fo it under "matchbox 20" and every other variant of their name, also under "Stop." Even "Mad Season." Sometimes people on this network mislabel songs or bands. Any ideas on what else i might look for?

2006-09-19 22:51:36 · 6 answers · asked by twilightgoddes 1 in Music

Thanks:)

2006-09-19 22:51:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Geography

2006-09-19 22:51:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Programming & Design

2006-09-19 22:51:13 · 4 answers · asked by rodel t 1 in Higher Education (University +)

i have a dark armpit, is there a cheaper way to whiten it? and if there's no other way aside from technology, how much it'll cost me?

2006-09-19 22:51:09 · 8 answers · asked by faye 1 in Skin & Body

My hubby expects me to read his thoughts and to know in every moment what to do or say without asking him. He wants me to understand him but does not want to communicate with me openly. When I told him to tell me, what is wrong and what can I do, he just said that if I don’t understand, then I am stupid, that I have to take care what I will do in the future because he cannot stand it anymore.

However, he is never willing to tell me clearly, what the problem is, but rather just a half-truth, "throwing the hook" and wait for me to get the point.

For example, he promised to go for a walk, and I was ready, then he told me he was sleepy. I said OK, let's go, it will wake you up… After the walk, he went to bed and said that he didn't feel good. I thought that he was just sleepy and I insisted to go for a walk, but I didn’t have any idea that he is ill, because he didn't tell me so. He was expecting me to understand the word sleepy as ill, what I didn't.

Of course, I told him that I don't like it and that I expect him to communicate more concrete with me, but he usually started yelling and accusing me for everything. I simply have no right to say anything I don't like, because always it will be my fault. I am expected to pretend that I don't know anything and that everything is OK even when it is obvious that there is something wrong.

Furthermore, he said that he wanted to keep me out of his problems because it bothers me and I am not strong enough to know about it.
On the other side, he thinks that he is fair and good to me and that he is doing everything for me to be happy and that he is desperate because he knows that I am not. But he still doesn't want to se the things from my side.

I feel lost and helpless and I am afraid to make any step further to do something for us. I feel he just does not respect me, treats me as a child.

Please, don't tell me to talk with him, because I have tried so many times and it does not work. He also doesn't feel like going to some therapist – he thinks the problem is in me, not in him. He does not cooperate and he underestimates my side of the problem so I just need to do something only for myself.

All I want is to get back my self-respect and make him respect me.

2006-09-19 22:51:09 · 10 answers · asked by smiiile 2 in Mental Health

I set up a website trying to get some street cats rehomed. It has live streaming video of the cats eating at night. I was getting a lot of visits at the beginning, but hte visit numbers are going way down and its been almost 2 weeks and no one has expressed an interest in taking a cat. Should I be discouraged or will it work if I hang in there?
The address is http://www.kittiesinthehood.com
I'd appreciate your opinions.
Thanks

2006-09-19 22:50:58 · 8 answers · asked by Phoenix 1 in Cats

2006-09-19 22:50:43 · 14 answers · asked by Josh r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-19 22:50:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

the plans of a sussex health hospitals,to send peoples records abroad to be kept up to date in south africa/india,if you disagree write to tony blair

2006-09-19 22:50:28 · 5 answers · asked by archaeologia 6 in Other - General Health Care

at work im being pestered by a man who has a problem.He makes fun of gays all the time,but even though i have a girlfriend,he seems to think im gay.He keeps making disgusting comments,and now hes started to touch me in a rather strange manner.The only person on my side is a gay man at work who very kindly offered to be a witness.wherever possible,but he is very busy,so he can only do this sometimes.Have any gay people on here got the knoweledge of what i should do next?I thought you may be the best people to ask.help!

2006-09-19 22:50:26 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

i love someone..since 2 years ,but i m unable to marry him due to family....our caste is different

2006-09-19 22:50:25 · 23 answers · asked by ruchi j 1 in Family

2006-09-19 22:50:25 · 7 answers · asked by createfashion 1 in Careers & Employment

My hubby expects me to read his thoughts and to know in every moment what to do or say without asking him. He wants me to understand him but does not want to communicate with me openly. When I told him to tell me, what is wrong and what can I do, he just said that if I don’t understand, then I am stupid, that I have to take care what I will do in the future because he cannot stand it anymore.

However, he is never willing to tell me clearly, what the problem is, but rather just a half-truth, "throwing the hook" and wait for me to get the point.

For example, he promised to go for a walk, and I was ready, then he told me he was sleepy. I said OK, let's go, it will wake you up… After the walk, he went to bed and said that he didn't feel good. I thought that he was just sleepy and I insisted to go for a walk, but I didn’t have any idea that he is ill, because he didn't tell me so. He was expecting me to understand the word sleepy as ill, what I didn't.

Of course, I told him that I don't like it and that I expect him to communicate more concrete with me, but he usually started yelling and accusing me for everything. I simply have no right to say anything I don't like, because always it will be my fault. I am expected to pretend that I don't know anything and that everything is OK even when it is obvious that there is something wrong.

Furthermore, he said that he wanted to keep me out of his problems because it bothers me and I am not strong enough to know about it.
On the other side, he thinks that he is fair and good to me and that he is doing everything for me to be happy and that he is desperate because he knows that I am not. But he still doesn't want to se the things from my side.

I feel lost and helpless and I am afraid to make any step further to do something for us. I feel he just does not respect me, treats me as a child.

Please, don't tell me to talk with him, because I have tried so many times and it does not work. He also doesn't feel like going to some therapist – he thinks the problem is in me, not in him. He does not cooperate and he underestimates my side of the problem so I just need to do something only for myself.

All I want is to get back my self-respect and make him respect me.

2006-09-19 22:50:02 · 15 answers · asked by smiiile 2 in Marriage & Divorce

e.g dopod, O2, nokia e61, moto Q, palm treo etc etc? Whats your experience?

2006-09-19 22:50:01 · 4 answers · asked by dgupta5 1 in PDAs & Handhelds

2006-09-19 22:49:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Current Events

list the equipment needed to implement this LAN
DEscribe how YOU are going to manage the printing and scanning services
Explian how you are going to deal with the security issue

2006-09-19 22:49:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Higher Education (University +)

For mispresenting the Christian faith?

2006-09-19 22:48:55 · 23 answers · asked by carl 4 in Religion & Spirituality

2006-09-19 22:48:50 · 2 answers · asked by Simon J 2 in Men's Health

Personally I'd welcome the death penalty for certain offenders. I'd happily put the noose round the neck of Ian Brady, Ian Huntley or Roy Whiting. Their crimes were inexcusable and heinous. They don't deserve to live! They've ripped families apart and the suffering of the family runs far deeper than an act of revenge. Nothing can replace not only these people's children, but also their entire lives.

2006-09-19 22:48:48 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Government

2006-09-19 22:48:28 · 5 answers · asked by kingsley U 1 in Geography

i was asked to choose between my bf and my family.. i wish it didn't happened coz' at that time, my head wanted to explode and i know how painful it was to my family when i chose my bf and how hard it was for me to choose between them

2006-09-19 22:48:25 · 16 answers · asked by ok 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 22:48:21 · 6 answers · asked by cheetahgrl 2 in Pregnancy

2006-09-19 22:47:33 · 21 answers · asked by snehav93 1 in Other - Science

cause what he said was really stupid, and insulting, one muslim guy said to me that they can say bad stuff about chritians, but in the Koran there is a statement about the punishment of the person who talks bad about the other religions (christians and jews) cause they in some how do belive in the same god the muslims worship. and also the drawings about mohammed, that was really insulting, and they also insulted moses and jesus, cause there was a drawing about the three prophits in a french news paper last year, what are they trying to do? wage a "holy" WW3?

2006-09-19 22:47:30 · 11 answers · asked by Julian 2 in Religion & Spirituality

Several homicial maniacs break into your home. They tie and gag you, your wife and three kids. One of the children is selected at random and taken to another room to face certain death. While your child being stabbed to death he/she is screaming for their mommy and daddy. One of the demented intruders gives you and option: You can scream back to your dying child, "Mommy and daddy hate you" over and over again. If you do so you and your entire family will be set free, and if you don't your entire family, including you, will be slaughtered.

2006-09-19 22:47:24 · 12 answers · asked by Praise Satan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm looking for the technical term of this type of word.

2006-09-19 22:47:18 · 14 answers · asked by stefan m 1 in Languages

Mine is “what you do speaks so loudly, I can’t hear what you’re saying”…Mark Twain

2006-09-19 22:47:08 · 43 answers · asked by Robin 2 in Philosophy