Been married over 20 yrs. and have 4 kids. Things started falling apart in our marriage about 11 yrs ago that I became aware of and of course even longer but just didn't see a problem. You think you are doing the kids a favor by staying together and trying to work as a family. At my husbands request I have been a stay at home mom and wasn't allowed to work, not even 2 nights a week. I did tell him once our youngest went off 2 school and the house was fixed I would get a job. Well the house never got fixed, and it never will. But I was told 2 yrs ago I should get a job and help out with the finances. He wanted me to work on his terms and do somethng I wasn't happy doing. I'm an independent beauty consultant and wasn't getting the support I needed from him to be the best that I could be. I started a waitress job to help out with finances, my small business was not moving forward, I cut back on hrs and I was offered a job promoting a fitness center during the day. C PART 2
2006-09-17
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