righto guys, erm its not easy,but i need to know how i can start to change my ways when i get into a argument with my girlfriend, every single time, i try so hard to relax and think before i speak, i have something called dyspraxia, which means what my head says, can sometimes be different to what i say or write down (along with a bunch of other stuff thats irrelevant)everytime we argue, i guilt trip her, i'm not proud, nor do i do it intentionally, i need to stop doing it, its ripping her up, i feel awful about it, i love her with all of my heart, and she loves me, but the arguments,usually over petty things, esculate because i guilt trip her, without realising, and rightfully so its starting to annoy her, how in the hell do i sort this out, i hate myself for it because its ripping her apart, and us, i trust her i love her, everything else in our relationship is amazing, its jus when we have a misunderstanding, i read it wrongly, guilt trip her and what not, how do i stop it?thanks
2006-09-11
02:15:55
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