Hi,
I'm 28 years old and have been seeing a therapist for about a year and a half re: a variety of issues, including self-esteem problems & past trauma (non-sexual, bullying from childhood through adulthood).
Recently I have also been having some sexual issues with my husband: he's been playing online games for some time and these days isn't that interested in sex that often & doesn't often get an erection even with my help. Or when he is interested, it's a "wham-bam" kind of thing. I discussed this with my therapist a few times and mentioned that I honestly don't think he's cheating since he's almost always home and online after work, and since I haven't found any incriminating evidence (credit card & phone bills, etc). I did say that in a way I feel that these issues are my fault though, because I'm not that experienced (hubby is the only man I've slept with in my life) and because I feel that I'm too fat.
2006-09-03
01:54:31
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