There is this girl at work who joined us a few months ago or so. A month in and she appeared to be interested in me. I did not make any moves then, though. Now I think I am interested and she seems to have toned down a bit and definitely doesn't appear to show her interest in me. She's even stopped wearing perfume. Does she still like me? What would you advise?
2006-09-03 01:53:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do I necessarily have to make the first move? Is it still a guy thing? Or can I rely on her to do so if she's interested in me?
2006-09-03 02:12:25 · update #1
She is a bit laid back. Perhaps a bit shy but not when in conversation. Basically, a bit like me.
She is also quite sure about what she wants/wants to do so it is not always easy to tell whether she's declining an offer to go to lunch with the rest of us, or she is just turning me down.
She is mysterious - perhaps one more reason why she's intrigued me so much.
By the way, thanks to all for the useful tips.
2006-09-03 03:26:09 · update #2
If you didn't make any moves on her the first time, then she probably didn't think you were interested in her. So, therefore she's not going to act interested in you. The only way to recover.. is to take charge. Tell her that you would love to show her the town, and take her out to a great restraunt, and if it goes well during dinner. Give her a kiss when you are leaving the restraunt. Don't ask her if you can kiss her. Just do it. You will have your answer.
2006-09-03 02:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by junebug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think what kinda a girl is she( outgoing, shy etc.) That will determined if you think she should ask you. Make more of an effort say some of us are going out for a drink do you want to come. See how she reacts. Hope this helps!!
2006-09-03 03:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lori K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..ask her out to the movies, if she say yes she likes to go out with you, but best of all take it slow. you don't wish to be sending the wrong message across to her. make it clear that you like her outside work, if you don't wish to be fire from your own boss there do u now? good luck
2006-09-03 01:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE WAY I THINK IS THAT SHE STIIL THINKS YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED AND SO SHE STOP TRYING. SO I THINNK YOU SHOULD MAKE THE FIRST MOVE AND IF SHE REJECTS THAN DONT STOP TRYING!
2006-09-03 02:33:44 · answer #4 · answered by tv_braves_baseball 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-03 01:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go tell her what u feel. her reaction is yhe answer to ur qestion.
2006-09-03 01:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by jeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be a weenie just ask her out
2006-09-03 01:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by mikebrennan_us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋