My husband and I divorced recently after a ten year marriage - one I thought could be saved with some conselling. He decided to have an affair and is now moving in with this girl. My husband lied, cheated, deceived. His is a pig. The problem I have is that I am a very forgiving person - I very rarely hold grudges. As a result, I get hurt. I have to deal with my ex because we have an 8 year old son. How do I let my ex know that his actions were wrong and this is not something that I will likely forget soon? I don't want to be a bitter ex wife - I am moving on and dealing with my reality as best I can. However, I do not want him to think that what he did was okay just because I talk to him normally about our son. He likes his life to be in order and he will think that if I am okay with everything then he obviously made the right choices. He treated me like garbage - with zero respect. I want him to not forget that - any ideas on how I do this?
2006-08-23
02:48:14
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