I have been with my high school sweetheart for almost 15 years. In the past 7 years or so, we have gradually drifted apart. We argue about anything and everything when we're together, and I no longer look forward to spending time with him. In fact, I embrace my solitude nowadays. Our relationship has become a habit, a convenience. There's no longer any passion, not even an easy companionship or stimulating conversation. Over the years, we've both changed without realizing we've become strangers. We're good people...maybe just not good for each other.
I frequently contemplate ending this relationship, but I'm finding it difficult because I still care...for what was, what I had hoped we'd become. I've communicated my feelings many times, but things remain the same. When we spend "quality" time with each other, we end up arguing. I continue to be unhappy. What should I do?
2006-08-21
20:10:57
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Jade
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Marriage & Divorce