My husband seems to become really angry and defensive towards me over things that if anyone is going to be offended by it should be me. It seems like we can not talk about our differences or he gets angry. Actually, he can talk about what he sees as my flaws as. I am open to this, but there just never seems to be any discussion about it, he seems to just want to tell me how I am (which is never a positive) and there is no other acceptable explanation. If I try to mention my feelings towards something he has done that has hurt me, he seems to change into a different person. If I try to talk to him about this, he just says I am the one doing that, he becomes extremely offended, begins to accuse me of trying to insult him, and it just seems to get worse from there. I don't understand this. Does this sound familiar to anyone, and would you have any advice on how to improve this situation?
2006-08-19
05:32:58
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