My stepson came to live with us about 2 1/2 months ago. I will be the first to admit that no, I didn't think it was a good idea. I didn't feel that financially we could support another kid, we were already having difficult time trying to juggle careers, home and family with what we already had in front of us. However, I couldn't just flat out tell my husband no, obviously that is his child so I had to support his decision. But I just cannot connect with this boy. My husband was not in his sons life for about 3 years (LONG STORY!!) so I only really knew this kid for 9-10 months before my hubby was asked to take custody. His son does not respect me as a parent. He had made it clear to me that his dad is his only parent in this house.He tries to get out of every chore I ask him to do(I have to track him down and stand over him) and he is a smartmouth to me.As a result of his treatment, I really don't like being around him at all. Anyone else dealt with this from stepkids, and how to deal?
2006-08-14
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LittleMermaid
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