There's a man that I know and have been quite attracted to him for over a year now. We became friends, then bussiness parters and he told me he's married. So I decided to get over my feelings for him even though at that time we had never talked about our feelings for each other coz I had always believed that the feeling was mutual, you know how the eyes often reveal secrets. It's been 14 months and just 2days ago he came onto me so strongly - he almost made love to me. For a married man he seemed so hungry like as if what he wanted he wasn't getting from his wife. So I wonder is he in love with me or does he think he can get from me sumthing that his wife isn't givin him? He seems loyal to his wife but...! I'm just confused. He's says he comes from a tribe with a tradition of forcing young men to marry by the age of 25, and that he picked the nearest gal after college to ful-fil that. Could it be - he married sumone he didn't love or maybe just lying to me. I like him but he's married!
2006-08-14 00:57:06 · 30 answers · asked by knys 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hmmm.... many married men use this technique to get other women into bed.
he wants his cake and eat it too !!
if he really is serious about you, and he REALLY does not get along with his wife, he will leave her and be with you...
right now it sounds like he wants the security and calm of having a wife and family and also the heat from a girlfriend. maybe he's having a bit of crisis where he needs to feel like a teenager and have a young girlfriend to prove to himself that he still has it !
it could also be that he is a bit bored and is looking around for some fun (its ridiculous but men do that !!! ) one day he will suddenly realise that he will lose his wife if he continues and then he'll chicken out, and dump you thinking you were a mistake - and you will be the one left heart broken !!
so DONT FALL FOR IT AND STAY AWAY !!
married men are off limits ! if he really is serious about you, he will be a divorced man - so be careful !
2006-08-14 01:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by GorGeous_Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people by their nature are incapable of monogamy.
This man is either unhappy at home, or is hoping that the
proverbial "grass is greener" with you on the side, or perhaps,
he's a lying cheating pig.
Either way, closeness can breed either contempt or attraction.
The real question here is, should you sleep with this man that
you are attracted to, despite the fact that he is married?
Can you live with yourself if you do that? How would you feel if
you were this man's wife?? Put yourself in HER shoes a minute
and maybe that can set your resolve.
BTW, I was 20 and my husband was 23 when we married 13 years ago, age has nothing to do with faithfulness IMHO.
2006-08-14 01:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by tigsgal1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men cheat for all sorts of reasons. If he really doesn't love his wife anymore, where are the divorce papers signed, sealed, and delivered? Until you see those with your own eyes, everything he says is a fantasy. Better to be a bit cynical than naive, like the majority of women who end up with married men.
2006-08-14 01:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some people do become unhappy with their sex lives but enjoy the benefits of the family home, say particularly enjoying raising the kids - whilst I don't think it's necessarily a good idea, I do know a lot of people who seem to become less bothered as to if their partners are faithful as time passes.
2006-08-14 01:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Andy benitez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who cheat have a very low moral standards. The always had a roving eye,and although married, they still go out trolling for other women. If they have and decency, they would not get married at all, and stay a promiscuous Lothario forever.
2006-08-14 01:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are animals who try to reproduce. Those who reproduce a lot have more children like themselves. So it 'pays' (evolutionarily speaking) men to sleep with many many...and have lots of kids... but only if the woman is capable of raising the kids well. So they choose fit capable women.
It's good for a woman to have a good partner to feed and raise the kids. You need a good partner, not a married cheater.
2006-08-14 01:02:18 · answer #6 · answered by bwsnyder2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away!!Married men sometimes are just feeling that a fling or affair will make them feel better.And it usually does(if they dont get caught)After they make themselves feel better they go home to their wifes ,string you along for a couple of weeks until you figure out he is never gonna leave his wife.This only leaves you bitter and hurt.So to avoid the above scenerio,please dont mess with married men.(p.s. they will lie about everything until they get what they want) Good luck God bless:O)
2006-08-14 01:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont trust married men. They know how to seduce women. Tell him to leave you alone. Friends ya right. All he wants is some alone time because his wife is too far to satisfy his carnal instincts.
unless of corse you enjoy that sorta thing and dont mind getting your heart torn to bits when he is done with you.
2006-08-16 04:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by jercha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married men never leave their wives to be with their girlfriends.
2015-08-03 23:23:14 · answer #9 · answered by sabrina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has made his bed and must lie in it, there are many men out there that aren't attached try looking for available men rather than being party to trying to break up relationships.
think about it if it was your husband and another woman going behind your back would you like it?
2006-08-14 01:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by g8bvl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋