For reasons too long to go into I have just started working on this issue in my 40s. But women have been hitting on me since I was 22. One experience in 30s was disasterous and never dated since. But women kept hitting on me anyway. Did they know something I didn't or were they just hoping?
Now that I know I struggle with the challenge of figuring out who's who. Because of my job I can't hang out in GLTG places. And I am not ready to come out at this point for a whole lot of reasons. Why come out if you aren't in a relationship? It is gonna rock a lot of boats. If I stay single why not just leave things. But I would still like to know how you know.
Partly because I have been trying to figure someone out and although i am not there yet I am leaning toward 'yes'. But unable to make a move. Complicated.
And partly I am wondering why I got hit on so much all of these years before I even got it together enough to figure me out. (I was pretty messed up in my youth)
2006-08-12
03:51:31
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Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender