I cut my losses and moved on and met a fantastic girl who is pregnant now with our first babygirl.But now my X keeps calling my house or send messages with people that she loves me and made a mistake but I have no hate or love for her to me she does not exsist because I must and want to take care of my gf and daughter because they are my life know.I am 26 working and very much in love with my gf but my X is intervering and I do not want to get involve with the law in a bad way please advise
2006-08-12 03:51:18 · 12 answers · asked by Swordfish B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Call her (prefrelbly with your girlfriend standing there) And tell her what you've told us (well don't ask her for advice)
After that if she continues to pester you than tell he to stop once more (with the warning that you may involve the law) If she won't stop after that than seriously, involve the law, get a restraning order
Think of your Gf and kid! Your ex might become incredibly jelouse and try to hurt them (not saying she's going to- so you shouldn't really worry) But if she's putting you in an incomftorble situation than you need to tell her what's what
Hope This helps :) Good luck
2006-08-12 03:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you've moved on with your life; you are deeply in love with someone else; you can no longer help her.
And tell her if she persists you will NOT hesitate to get a restraining order against her. (Costs under $25) That you want to be left in peace.
Expect ANGER, but anyone with sense would realize you mean business. If she does persist, then you know what you have to do. She may be a bit off balance, so be careful.
2006-08-12 04:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a child now,the time for childish games are over. The ex wants you back maybe you moved too fast with the new chick. but now life is involved so suck it up and give that child a father
2006-08-12 04:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your actual gf if she has any suggestions. Maybe you could invite your x to see your little family, if you have common friends invite her at the same time as them. She'd see that you're happy and got along with your life and ask a friend to help her understand after-wards (if she still have problems) to get on with her life to.
2006-08-12 03:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her phone calls and stuff...you have moved on from her and she obviously wants you back....but she isn't thinkin about anyone else either...she needs to move on...you already have and you feel no love for her...you don't hate her....but all you got to do is ignore her and that is all the best you can do.
2006-08-12 04:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a unlisted #. Put her on a call reject list. Tell the people you do want to even hear the message. Or go drastic and make her dislike you.
2006-08-12 03:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to you don't want anything to do with her...then change your number.
You could threaten to get the law involved...sometimes the threat works.
2006-08-12 04:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so far you r doing good leave your losses cut and tell your friends to keep their opinions to themselves if they are true friends then they will stop relaying messages from her and eventually she will do the same
2006-08-12 03:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by dmon12m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 23:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u can talk to her and explain to her that u dont want to have anything to do with her... i suggest u do it quickly and be very gentle with her and let her talk to u about how she feels or else she might poison your current relationship and make u break up...
good luck
2006-08-12 03:57:54 · answer #10 · answered by vedz666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋