I have been married for over 10 yrs... we have 3 kids, all elementary school age. He has never volunteered to take the kids anywhere with him, he has to be told to help get them ready for school and bed, and when he isnt working he is sleeping.. When we sit down and discuss anything he starts crying saying.. I dont want to loose you and the kids, yall are my life.... How in the heck to I make him see that we feel like we come in second and third to his buddies and his work?.... He is also saying.. Just because I am not home, doesnt mean I am out having fun... leaves work to play golf, stays after work to play basket ball, and weekends plays golf or helps his buddies..... Why do they act like this?
2006-08-04
03:49:37
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