What do I do he is just kinda shy I know once we hold hands once he wont be shy anyone but how do I get him to hold my hand, I would rather he held my hand than I hold his, what should I do?
2006-08-04 03:50:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him flat out that you want him to hold your hand. It's really not that big a deal.
2006-08-04 03:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-04 10:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take his hand. You sound like you're in middle school. I'm not trying to be mean, believe me. I'm just saying that I think you're too young for a relationship. But I know you're not going to listen to that because I didn't when I was your age. So, as long as you're in a relationship, don't sweat the small stuff like who's going to hold whose hand first. Be bold, but be SMART.
2006-08-04 10:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by Elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take his and show him how you like it. As a shy male I can say this is very effective. Take the lead a time or two and he'll come around.
2006-08-04 10:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by Wahrsuul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take his hand and hold it...sometimes they just need that little bit of help, and the rest will come naturally
2006-08-04 10:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or just wait for him to initiate. I believe it will be worth the patience.
2006-08-04 10:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by hbob120 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure exactly i had one like that and we recently broke up b/c we didnt talk or do anything let me no when ya fix that
2006-08-04 10:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jenna H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm why dont you just grab his hand when you walking then it will be all good
2006-08-04 10:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by Meriah C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new boyfriend...
2006-08-04 10:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by jaxxie1982 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋