I have a friend, not a best friend but a guy that I like & get on well with, well enough that he feels open enough to tell me about his relationships... Not that this is a very secretive subject for him. For the entire time I have known him he has not said a single nice thing about his partner, he has always talked of wanting to finish the realtionship but never has, & he has cheated on her numerous times with out ever coming clean/being found out. When his girlfriend and I met we hit it off very quickly, spent enormous amounts of time togehter and have become very close, infinitely more so than he and I. It seems that I can not be a true friend to both of them, if I am a true friend to him then I feel I am letting her down, if I am a true friend to her then I am betraying his confidence in me. The situation is complicated further by my feelings towards her and my belief in our compatibility. I'm not convinced that my divulgation of this information would be entirely for her benefit.
2006-08-03
12:34:08
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Little Swallow
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