My boyfriend & I were talking about how we want to get married, & about having an outside wedding. When he casually mentioned this to his parents, his mom said 'well I wouldn't go'. Reason being they are very catholic & traditional. Shortly after this my boyfriend decided that he wanted our wedding to be recognized by the catholic church, in which apparently you have to get married inside a church or else get special permission. I dont want to get married in a church, I am not religious at all, I dont believe in god. I was fine with incorporating catholic aspects into the ceremony but I am not comfortable with it being completely catholic because that is not who I am. To top things off when he talked about it with his parents another time when he was inquiring as to whether you are allowed to be married outside of a church, his mom said to him 'dont worry we'll make it so that [i'm]comfortable' having it in a church.I really dont think its her place to say that, what do you guys think?
2006-08-03
14:19:20
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