young mothers?

Question

i wanna know why people on here are so hatful towards young mothers. like heres something i found that someone wrote about a young mother "YOUR 13 YOU NASTY HO AND YOUR MOM NEEDS TO GET SLAPED FOR LETTING YOU KEEP THIS BABY YOUR GOING TO REGREAT IT ALL YOUR LIFE SLUUT" Yes i know that 13 is VERY young to be having a baby, but if she has family support, then what is it to everyone else. its not your baby or your decision. so how bout you not call young girls like this a ho or slut and just get on with your own life.

im glad to see that people agree with me. you can give them advice on bein a young mum is hard.. but meing a mum of any age is hard. i just dont think they need to called s l u t s and hos

see.. another one "What's going on with my fetus at 18 weeks?" Answer "how OLD are you??" why cant someone ask that. its a wonderful time bein pregnant. when i was pregnant i wanted to know everything that was goin on inside. why do people need to know how old they are. its a load of bull shite

Answer 1

I totally agree.

Answer 2

Thank you, you are so right I'm 16 with a 2yr-old and all people can do is say negative things.I know i was young when i had my baby, but it really don't matter how old i am when I'm begin the best mother i can be and my daughter don,t want 4 nothing.I make my child my #1 priority, i might be young but i have a job and i braid hair on the side as my extra hustle, oh and I'm probably doing better with my child than people twice my age!!!

Answer 3

YOu are right that is a very young age to have a child, but it is also wrong to bash someone for what they do during there life. I was a young mother also i had my first daughter when i was 19. thats not oo young but young enough. I think they speak that was because girls that age don't like to think about consequenses. Having a baby that young could ruin there whole live. but they dont ever really seem to care.

Answer 4

Your right they shouldn't be so mean to these extremely young mothers. However MOST of them present themselves in a way that just makes you think "where the hell are her parents??!?!" I don't even believe most of them I think they are just bored and want some kind of attention. If they really had all these hard issues they wouldn't be looking to yahoo answers.

Answer 5

yea thats what i want to know too. i mean all they are doing is asking a simple question and some of the people are being motherfuckers about it because they are so young. i mean they already have enough pressure to deal with since they are in their teens but yea i agree with you people need to stay out of **** like that if they are going to be hateful about it.

Answer 6

ppl who are mean to others on here simply have nothing better to do with they're day. this site is suppose to help ppl. i asked a simple question once about my boyfriend and i having a baby and i got bashed bc i was wrong thinking about kids and i'm not married yet. although he is my finace now ppl are just sooo rude!! and i hate it but you gotta 4get about them and be the better person and be mature.

Answer 7

i don't agree with calling her a ho or a $lut. she made a mistake. however, it's often that these young mothers who were not responsible enough to take care of themselves, end up living off my pocketbook through welfare.

Answer 8

Thank you! If it already happened let it go! But there are the people on here that are rude about all kinds of stuff!
I say you don't like it don't read it and keep your 2 cents out of it!!!!

Answer 9

I'm feeling you on that that was not right for people to talk down on someone cause of that

Answer 10

yes i agree with u ppl on here can be rude