We sent out our invitations for our mid-August wedding in the beginning of June. We asked for RSVP's by July 19th (today). We invited close to 200 people (mostly family) and we have only had a few different people RSVP, and know about 60 people are coming for sure. Now, a ton (29 couples, most have kids) havent RSVPed and thats a possibility of 70 more people to the list if they did come. Well, the problem is, we are having food catered, and we need to tell the caterer at the end of the month how many people will be there (we are serving dinner) but we dont want to order for a bunch of people who never show. My mom and my fiance's mom offered to call the people on the list who didnt RSVP, and see if they are coming and just forgot. Is this rude to do? We really need to know, but I dont want to sound rude or pushy about it.
2006-07-19
04:10:02
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