i have this guy friend and were always talking, but i want him to know that i dont think of him as just friends. how do u do that without scaring him away?
2006-07-19 04:09:57 · 37 answers · asked by babycakes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try snogging his face off
2006-07-19 04:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tickle him, touch his arm, think of things that you both enjoy & do them together, show him you remember what occasions are special to him, (if his team wins an important game, his b-day) & give him something. Tell him that you had a dream that you 2 were bf & gf. If he sounds interested & wants to hear more, give him some details. If he doesn't sound interested, then say, " What a stupid dream!" lol. Ask him out, the worst he could say is no. He might even like you too!
I shortened the list a lil so you might wanna get a few more ideas below. It also says stuff bout if he says no. Good luck !! :)
2006-07-19 04:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok Ladies this is for all of you (myself included) MEN DO NOT GET SUBTLE HINTS I REPEAT MEN DO NOT GET SUBTLE HINTS. They just don't. That's why so many of them are on here wondering what is going on around them. You have to drop a bomb on them or they will be confused and you'll be mad and wondering why he's not getting it. Stop wasting time. Ok now that that is out of the way here is my advice... Just tell him. Simple, straight to the point, open and honest. And don't use a lot of double talk the simpler you keep it the better. And be ready to accept the outcome no matter what.
2006-07-19 04:29:10 · answer #3 · answered by alluring617 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're always talking, sounds like you could just bring the subject of possibly becoming more than friends up during conversation. Tell him that you feel like you can talk about anything with him and wonder what he thinks about becoming more than just friends. If he's really a friend and likes to talk, he won't be scared away, no matter what he feels.
2006-07-19 04:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mmenard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, ask him to meet you for lunch one day; and spend some quality time with him. When you talk to him, reach over and touch his hand for a second. That is an intimacy signal. You will able to tell if he's really interested. If it looks like he is, then ask if he wants to go out sometime? That way, there isn't alot of pressure on either one of you. He's probably feeling the same way as you are. Either way you have nothing to lose. Go for it!
2006-07-19 04:13:54 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not tell you directly, do not say anything. There is a chance that his neighbor is mistaken. If he does tell you that he wants more than friendship, You tell him the truth in as few words as possible. Once you have said what you have to say, leave. And, once you have told him, you should allow him to spend less time with you and make no complaints. He needs to be able to find someone with whom he can build a life.
2016-03-26 23:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be suttle, Why waste time? Just tell him, who knows he might just like you back. Then again he may not. I say be bold, you take the step!
2006-07-19 04:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by Chris B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you consider him a friend then you should be honest about how you really feel with him, talk find out where you stand maybe he feels the same way about you maybe not relationship are based on taking a chance on someone take that chance express your true feelings and if he dose not feel the same way accept his decision at least you know you tried and you are not living wondering what if, best of luck
2006-07-19 04:18:56 · answer #8 · answered by playful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firting always good never fails and if he don't want to be anything but friends then you have a way to back out just say I am firting because we are friends and you should know better.
2006-07-19 04:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just start flirting with him a little bit and make more distinctive eye contact. If he flirts back, gradually increase your flirting. You'll be able to tell if he's interested.
2006-07-19 04:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by Island_Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he believes in friends becoming more than friends in a relationship of some type and still be good friends , that's how I asked my friend. (We are together now! It worked for me!)
2006-07-19 04:22:58 · answer #11 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋