I hear all too often about women who are pregnant and make comments like "I will not put my baby up for adoption, I'd rather abort". I just don't understand this. So many people think adoption is a bad choice, something to not even consider. Why is that? There are so many positives about adoption . . . giving life instead of taking it away, allowing a child to be raised by people who so desperately want a child and knowing that they will provide everything for a child. What are mothers scared of when looking at adoption? Please, help me understand this.
Nowadays there are so many positive things that can be done with adoption. The birthmom can chose the family that she wants to place her child with. They can sign a legal binding agreement in some states that will state things such as how often the birthmom will receive pictures, letters, visit, etc. If the birthmom wants an open adoption that is.
Thanks for listening,
Deanna - hoping to adopt baby #2 soon
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2006-07-19
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