The girl I am really attracted to broke up with her longtime boyfriend. I cant believe this. Should I go for her? I think I have a good chance at getting her. The last time she broke up with one of her boyfriends I had the biggest opportunity to get her when she was single, she was always flirting with me when we hung out but I was too stubborn and dumb and never took advantage of it. But I am fearing if she will accept me for who I am. Should I go for it? Anybody have any tips on how to get her to want to be with me?
2006-07-19 12:30:39 · 16 answers · asked by North Dakota baseball player 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know I should wait for her to get over her old b/f for a bit, but I dont want to wait too long cuz guys are going for her all the time.
2006-07-19 12:46:49 · update #1
GO 4 IT MAN!!!!! ASK HER OUT!!!
2006-07-19 12:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by funlovingcaligurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want her on the rebound so that she will beak up with you too.
Women like men who are a little hard to get. Stand back a let things ride. Just be visible but not too in her face
2006-07-19 19:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by Moody Red 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was flirting then she probably already likes you for who you are. you sound shy to me, so that may be a problem if you're trying to ask her out. you have to get over that. you can't miss this next opportunity, there just might not be another one. you have to tell her how you feel. the rest should be history. good luck.
2006-07-19 19:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by friendlyghurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make someone "wanting to be with u" but if u guys r good friends and no each other and since u no her situation i would just ask her if she would like to go out to eat some where like for dinner... she should get the hint u want to take things more serious fi she says no atleast u no she isnt interested if she says yes then she may like u .. hope that helps bye
2006-07-19 19:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by badgirldragonfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would approach her, tell her how you feel and also tell her your not taking advantage and you don't want to be a rebound fling. With saying that you may also want to give her some room to get over her break up before you start dating her.
2006-07-19 19:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by pq4u72 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it but don't come on too strong, she might need some space for a while since shes just come out of a long term relationship
2006-07-19 19:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should definatly go for it. Try to take her out somwhere you think is nice, and it doesn't have to cost money lol. Then when the times right ask her!
2006-07-19 19:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait a few weeks/months and give her some time to get over her bf. THEN go for it!
2006-07-19 19:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by rclucky6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt hurt to try, im sure she'll say yeah. if not shes a ***** and you shouldnt wast your time. but as far as going out with her yeah!! do it!! and wine and dine, all girls love to be wined and dined. thats the best way to get a girl. and no its not about your money but if you want a girl you got to do what to got to do to get her. best wishes to ya!!
2006-07-19 19:38:34 · answer #9 · answered by MICHELLY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure they aren't going to get back together and then go for it.
2006-07-19 19:40:16 · answer #10 · answered by harristone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it :-) take a chance...live a little
2006-07-19 19:40:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋