We've been together for 12yrs has a 4yr old. He got a better job offer abroad over a yr. I found out after he left.Up to that point we were absoultely crazy about each other. There was never a "sex issue" between us. He confessed after been confronted with incriminating evidence by me, that he slept with one of his female friends, not once but twice, (well at least that what he says). This girl knows me, not to talk to ofcourse, but knew his family life. My first reaction was "I am thro with his a**!", but the history that we had, our 4yr old, our future plans and my church encouraged me to forgive him and save our marriage. I have tried for this long to but I am beginning to fall apart. He is pleading with me not to leave him and says that the affair was just for ego&sex. I hate talking to him when he calls, i dont go to church anymore, I am depressed and is considering a furture w/out him. I am working f/time, goes to school,building a home & caring our 4yr old
What should i do ?
2006-07-07
14:56:24
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sharletweb
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Marriage & Divorce