I'm in love with my girlfriend. She is Korean. I am Chinese American. We met when she came here as a foreign exchange student. We had 6 perfect months together and then we did long distance for more than 1.5 years. We've gotten together about 3 times. I went to Korea once, then she came back here once and then we met up in Hong Kong once. Now all of a sudden she called and said she wants to be free and has lost motivation to come to new york and that it is too much sacrifice for her to drop everything and come to new york and she isn't sure if she wants to marry me now. Before we were both so in love that marriage was the obvious choice and our plan was to get married in 2 years. We are both 26 now. I am confused since everything was fine, even perfect before even though we were 10,000+ miles apart. We've stayed in our honey moon phase for more than a year. So now I found myself buying a ticket to Korea. What should I say? Should I ask her to marry me? What if she rejects me?
2006-06-27
17:00:55
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yamjeff
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