2006-06-27 17:00:44 · 17 answers · asked by surfingmotorcrosschicks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That's a tough one.
Have you talked to your teachers and parents? You need to let someone know about this and get it recorded. If you have, are they doing anything about it? They need to. There is no reason that you should have to put up with bullying of any kind. You can contact me if you like, with more details I may have more ideas for you. See my 360 to understand why.
2006-06-27 17:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by thewildeman2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi, Honey. How old are you? I hope you have a good relationship with your parents. If you do, talk to them about this. If not, go to any adult you trust (a neighbor, a friend, a minister, a teacher, whatever). When my son was in the 4th grade, his teacher called me after school and said he was having a problem with another student and was afraid to walk home. They were both in the principal's office. I asked her to let me speak to my son, then told him to walk home and not be afraid, I had his back. I then spoke to the other kid and told him if he messed with my kid, he was messing with me and I WOULD come looking for him( yeah, right, but HE didn't know that!) Needless to say, there were no problems after that. Do you have an older brother or sister? These punks just need to know if they mess with you, they are in a world of s***. Bullies are cowards. They aren't going to take on someone that they know they can't beat. Always remember, you're better than they are. They have to pick on others to make themselves feel bigger than they are. They're nothing, they're tiny, they're just big babies. YOU are the better person. Never forget that! Good luck, Sweetie!
2006-06-27 17:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by olelady55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Ryan, This is a terrible problem with the school systems...they rarely address the bully situation...please go to the principle or guidance counselor...if you don't get relief from this bully then...go to the police with your parents. Good Luck and stay strong. You are a much better person than this bully is.
2006-06-27 17:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by magick_tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in their Ryan. They're just insecure little brats (and I'm putting that far too nicely). You should tell someone you can trust, and if anyone ever touches you don't be afraid to speak up. Looking back, I've thought of all kinds of mean things I could do or say to my old bullies, but I realize that just would have given them more satisfaction. Don't let them get to you. I know it's tough, but ignore them when they're mean and talk to someone at school or home who can help you.
2006-06-27 17:07:56 · answer #4 · answered by Sizzlin Sicilian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and gather a posse to move about with. Walking alone brings inconvenient attention, even for grown-ups. If you are with a group, even if they can't help defend you, they can raise a fuss for you.
If you have no friends in school (like I didn't), just tell your parents about it, and tell a teacher you know well. If your parents are the type that want you to fight back or deal with it on your own, you must rely on a teacher or friends...
Definitely avoid fighting, unless he corners you and you are about to be harmed. If that happens, you have every right to defend yourself. I don't want to give any fighting tips because I don't want to be responsible for the damage, but I will say that all it takes is one punch, full-force, but I recommend against that. Go the route of talking to your teacher(s).
2006-06-27 17:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most bully are just afarid there self. Go to the dean or teacher and let them know whats going on. When this bully confronts you again tell it " I do not wish to fight you, and am welling to forgive you for what you have done and lets be friend. But I will protect myself if you touch me." Bullys love for you to be afraid. Stand you gounds. I would rather get beat up one time then run everyday. Good Luck.
2006-06-27 17:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by Cherry Bomb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't fight back or say anything offensive or you'll get suspended, because typically the victims get suspended too if they do that. you're best luck is to tell someone (no, you're not ratting anyone out). this way you'll have a clean record and the other person will most likely leave you alone after being suspended. and if not, it's his fault, if he keeps it up he can get suspended/expelled. you're not doing anything wrong, and i know it's tempting, but don't fight back. because it only makes sense if it's not your fault that you shouldn't get in trouble. good luck.
2006-06-27 17:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a trusted teacher and tell your parents. Nobody has the right to bully you under any circumstances.
Doing something about it now will make it better sooner.
2006-06-27 17:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight back. Don't let them think you can be taken advantage of. Having others take care of the problem will only show more weakness. Once you stand up for yourself they'll leave you alone.
2006-06-27 17:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by Mike R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, my older brother's name is ryan, and he is 16, how old r u? well any way, either tell a teacher or your parents, or stand up for yourself. so pretty much, stand and land. stand up for yourself, but dont land on the other persons feet. good luck, i hope it works out between you guys
2006-06-27 17:04:52 · answer #10 · answered by sesso*E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋