I have a boyfriend whom I've known for almost 20 years. We met when through my brother when he was in kindergarden-I'm a year older. Anyways at one time, my boyfriend was a Christian, like I am. Some things happened to him when he was a teenager that made him turn away from believing. His beliefs became agnostic. We started dating a few years later, and it almost seems like he believes in God, but he can't "forgive" God for the things that happened to him. I've talked to him about religion & he tells me that he's not sure if he believes or not, he "questions it". But if/when things get bad for me in my life, he'll go to church with me for "moral support", or he'll tell me to pray about it if I think it'll help. I love him very much, & want nothing more than for him to just believe again. I want him to give up his demons & start over, even if it means losing him. I just need advice on if how I should try to save him, or if I should leave the situation alone, which I'm not sure I can do.
2006-09-04
12:33:08
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vicki
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