my mom is italian and my dad is irish, i see myself as just italian but because i do people don't like me for not saying i'm what my dad is. the thing is that i look exactly like my mom, my dad does not look anything like me - he is really white and my mom and i are really tanned, everyone says to me you look exactly like your mother. i don't live with my dad and i don't know his family. the way i see it is, i am a female and my mother had me not my dad, i am my moms egg because the sperm usually fertilizes the egg for males not females, i have researched alot and it looks to me that maternal DNA is stronger and its unfair that all men do is have sex with your mom whilst ur mom has to have periods all her life to have you, and pregnancy, morning sickness, birth, shes the one that brings you into the world. he does nothing. even research this on google "egg fertilized without sperm" a baby can be born without sperm, that proves that the egg is actually the baby, basically most cells can fertilize a egg, everyone in the world has a mother but not everyone has a dad...
is it okay if i tell people that i am just italian or is this not fair, because i try to see myself as half irish but i can't, i don't know anything about irish people and i don't know anyone irish?
i was born in italy and grew up with my mom and grandmother then i moved to new york, usa when i was 10, i can speak fluent italian, i have a really strong relationship with my mothers family and grew up with them, i see them everyday. i have an american accent now though, so i guess i'm american of italian decent. i am really really proud italian and my mom prefers me to just consider myself as just italian but some people such as my mom's friends get offended when i don't say that i'm italian-irish. i've never even been to ireland though, it confuses me when people say that i am half, and kind of upsets me because i feel like i don't know who or what i am!
2007-11-06
04:30:54
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