Some guy is suppose to give some presentation on homosexuality at my college, I want to go but I also don't want to go. Because I know if I go, then I'll sort be confirm that I'm gay, which I really don't want to do. I've trying to suppress it, but its really not working.
I've sort of know I was gay since 5th grade, and know a Junior in College, and still haven't come to terms with it. And it driving me insane.
I want to go, but also don't want to go, you know what I mean?
Its like if I attend (its open to everyone in the school) I'll be acknowledging that I am that way.
2007-11-05 14:43:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I would go. You would just be hurting yourself if you didn't go and who gives a f**k if you're gay? It's the 21st century and most people are open minded now! I would go for it.
2007-11-05 14:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
If you are gay, then be gay. That's who you are. Don't suffer because of other people's ignorance.
Straight people go to homosexual presentations too. Its not like thy are going to stamp you with the word GAY when you walk in.
Be who you are. There's no other way you can be.
Where do you go to school that you are so afraid to officially come out?
2007-11-05 22:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Geologist 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I hear people in college really dont care if people are gay or not and things are alot more open if i were you I would go.
Whats the worst that could happen Hey! maybe youll meet someone youll like..
2007-11-05 22:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by ☆DUH☆ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to find a friend who you have confided in, if they are female then it is easier to maintain the illusion, then you can go and not worry about it.
But you might want to consider taking care of yourself a little better.
2007-11-06 01:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by Chris A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Doctor Chaos,
I think you need to reevaluate why people go to such presentations.
Not everyone in the room will be LGBT trust me.
Hugs,
PennyAnn
2007-11-05 22:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you kno your gay..... so if you accept your selfas gay.. dont me embarrased by it.... im younger than you (16) .. im bi.... i dont tell any 1 but if some 1 asks ill tell them..... your friends like you for who you are. if they dont want to be your friend any more because your gay.. then there not real friends at all..... you shouldnt hide your self.... i say go
"be your self not what others want you to be"-unknown
2007-11-05 22:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by hicksfl2003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go 2 see what it's all about. if people start talking about u, let them talk. u don't have 2 say anything 2 them.
2007-11-06 04:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, it would be a gateway thing. I say don't go.
2007-11-05 22:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋