Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - October 2007

Give me your best points, pro and con.

About me, to give you places to come from
-I'm a libertarian, I believe in free will, letting people make their own choices and mistake.
-I believe strongly in letting people be themselves, being real, and forgiveness.
-My father is homophobic, my mother is not (she's a hippie)
-Jesus is (much) more than my homeboy.
-I am familiar with the Bible. If you would seek to go from that angle, I would ask that you read this first and give me a counterargument to it (it deals with the scripture from a pro-gay point of view). http://www.soulforce.org/pdf/whatthebiblesays.pdf
I encourage Christian responses from both sides.
-If you are a Christian, and don't have time to read that pamphlet, give me non-biblical evidence for it being wrong please.

Thanks, and happy convincing. Best answer to the most convincing arguments on either side. shoot!

2007-10-27 12:55:42 · 35 answers · asked by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6

Or are they born that way? Can't they become lizards if they tried hard enough?

2007-10-27 11:57:24 · 7 answers · asked by John K 3

I am not gay! But I just want to know because I've seen this around in the mall.

2007-10-27 11:48:25 · 21 answers · asked by ? 3

2007-10-27 09:58:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wonderful wife has struggled to understand sometimes why I cross dress. Sometimes we fought real bad about it, other times she was more forgiving once she saw it was not a threat to us. She bought me some dresses and lingerie for my brithday one time, we slept together, made love while i was wearing shall we say something initimate, and although she still gets angry at times about the subject, I still feel very grateful to her for being so cool. I have to keep things private now as her opinion on this changes so it is hard to keep up with her, but I doubt many women could cope, even if they thought you were a great husband and I am not saying I am - she is still my wife and we are still happy. It is finding the right balance sometimes. Does anyone else have a similar experience?

2007-10-27 09:44:35 · 4 answers · asked by jonoxk 3

i try and talk to him when he makes comments about girl on girl sex but he ignores me and then can't understand why i get so upset. I love him so much, what do I do?

2007-10-27 08:56:53 · 9 answers · asked by mama to be finally 1

2007-10-27 07:55:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-27 07:03:10 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's all very confusing. My boyfriend decided he was really a girl. So he went and had some shots and implants, but he still has all the guy stuff. And it still works real well. So, at what point is he my girlfriend?

2007-10-27 06:35:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Be creative!

2007-10-27 06:21:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend has just recently admited to having a gay experience with another couple, before we got it together. It was a married couple, although the man was bisexual. He said that he only gave the guy a BJ and visa versa but he didn't go any further. He said it was wrong for him and was just curious and now totally regrets it. He said that there were no kissing involved and that he never went all the way, he was more interested in the girl than the bloke. Could he be in denial?

2007-10-27 05:58:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-27 05:33:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-27 05:22:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-27 05:12:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

in the history of our country NOT ONE civil right has been voted uopn untill homo rights, ie: hate crimes laws, gay marriage... we've even gone to war with ourselves over civil rights. why do we have to start voting on civil rights now?

2007-10-27 04:45:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-27 03:36:20 · 72 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son is 13 and I hate to say this, but fits many of the "stereotypes" of someone who is gay. I was wondering if I should just ask him if he is gay. Most parents live in denial and I don't want to do that. I don't want him to feel like he has to keep this in.

Any advice?

2007-10-27 03:20:23 · 27 answers · asked by Ugogirl 2

The other night my friend came to visit. He asked me a question that took me by surprise. "Have you ever wondered about fooling around with another guy?". In the 5 years we've known each other nothing like this has ever come up. I am open minded and answered him truthfully, "Yes, sometimes I find myself looking at other guys in the gym, wondering how large they are etc. But nothing outright sexual." I asked him why. He said because lately he finds himself wondering about it. Its kinda bugging him a bit. The conversation then went on to comparing teenage wanking stories. That about as far as the conversation went.

My problem is that since that night I cant stop thinking about him! I find myself wondering for the first time in my life what it would be like to fool around with a guy!

My question is why now at 31 would these thoughts appear out of nowhere? And should I pursue these feelings? (I must admit I kind of want to). And if so, how to go about it?

2007-10-27 02:48:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

If one of the identical twins is gay, is the other one 100% gay?
Can the other be straight at all?

Have you ever seen gay twins?
Have you ever seen a straight and a gay identical twins?

2007-10-27 02:03:45 · 17 answers · asked by splash 4

2007-10-27 01:17:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a bi******,and i hate being myself...
How to react with my bi******ity and enjoy
flirting(i'm afraid as a non-offensive word) girls?

what's your opinion:
Shall I try to get rid of it or to cope with my nature?

NOTE: I can,as a normal boy,find some girls look beatifull and derive gratification in it;
But the urge for boys dominating it...

what do i do? assist me...

2007-10-27 01:17:02 · 11 answers · asked by mithun 1

2007-10-27 00:39:42 · 15 answers · asked by rony 1

This question is especially for boys...

2007-10-27 00:28:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is going to sound really ignorant and naive, but that's coz when it comes to this subject I am.

I have never been to a gay bar but I'm going out to the gay village in Manchester in a couple of weeks with my two straight female friends and a male friend who is gay, for no other reason than we wanted a night out where we could dance and talk and have fun without lecherous men hitting on us. Since this was arranged I've split up with my husband but that is still the purpose of our night out coz I'm still not going out on the pull for some time to come.

But it got me thinking, coz sooner or later I may want a new man in my life, (I haven't ruled that out), but any new man would have to be comfortable around my friends and family including the gay one's. So would a gay bar be a good place to look? Coz obviously if a straight guy is there he's very secure in his own sexuality (unless of course he's in denial) and is more likely to be the type of guy I'd like to get to know.

2007-10-26 23:32:23 · 20 answers · asked by Louise H 3

Is it that their lives seem so interesting or that ours do not?

2007-10-26 23:22:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

im male but i wanted to know whats the comfiest womans underware. i like thongs but i find them uncomfy

2007-10-26 22:46:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do they do and are they safe???

2007-10-26 20:48:03 · 8 answers · asked by carl....1 2

Who do you prefer to have relations with and why?

2007-10-26 20:09:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

when we were naughty Kids in Ireland, many moons ago ,we were threatened that the Gipsies would come & carry us away, is it the same in Portugal ????

2007-10-26 19:38:38 · 6 answers · asked by solosailor 3

I am not handsome. And i m like a fish out of water when i meet some beautiful girls. plz suggest on my question.........

2007-10-26 18:03:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous