2007-10-27 09:58:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
what if i don't really see myself in a relationship w/ a girl , but i want to kiss and appreciate her but not anything sexual??? what should i do?
2007-10-27 14:20:24 · update #1
Are you attracted to the same sex? Are you attracted to the opposite sex? Are you attracted to both? That should answer your question.
Don't get too hung up on the label. Be attracted to who you're attracted to, love you who you love, and don't worry about the labels. When you figure out what you are, then that's fine, but don't try to force yourself to find a label. Eventually, you'll figure it out.
I was straight most of my life, then started becoming attracted to other women as well. I have never been in a relationship with a woman, but have had sexual relations with them, so I consider myself bi. But I just don't see the label as being that big of a deal.
2007-10-27 10:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by War Games AM 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-10-27 17:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by Godzilla Gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm straight because, although I find some women stunningly beautiful or smart or funny, I never think of them in terms of romance or sex. I only respond that way to men.
2007-10-27 17:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by ssmesq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bi means you could have sex with both men and women, lesbian is when you are a women who only likes other women and strait is when you can NOT see yourself marrying the opposite sex.
2007-10-27 17:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by ♥CUTIE♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're straight if the same sex (in your case girls) does not turn you on only the opposite sex. You're gay/a lesbian if you find that you not attracted to the opposite sex, only the same sex. You're bi if you're attracted to both sexes.
2007-10-27 17:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by Selym 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm bi and know it because I desire men and woman sexually--lesbians like only chicks---straights like sex only with the opposite sex--
2007-10-28 01:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by smoothtan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like a .... 'gut feeling', I guess.
Experimentation with both sexes helps you decide for sure (At least, it did with me), but it depends on who you're sexually, physically and emotionally attracted to
2007-10-27 17:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by swelwynemma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just do. I've known as far back as I can remember being bi. actually I thought I was a lesbian. imagine my surprise when in University, I found myself attracted to me, and able to function with them. that was unexpected.
2007-10-27 17:04:41 · answer #8 · answered by freespirit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're straight you date and have meaningful relationships with the opposite sex.
If you're lesbian or gay you date and have meaningful relationships with the same sex.
Bis do this with both sexes
2007-10-27 17:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by StretfordEnder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u find the male/female sex and sexually atractive ur bi if you just find the opposite sex attractive then ur straight , if you only find the same sex sexually attract well you gone gay
2007-10-27 17:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋