My wonderful wife has struggled to understand sometimes why I cross dress. Sometimes we fought real bad about it, other times she was more forgiving once she saw it was not a threat to us. She bought me some dresses and lingerie for my brithday one time, we slept together, made love while i was wearing shall we say something initimate, and although she still gets angry at times about the subject, I still feel very grateful to her for being so cool. I have to keep things private now as her opinion on this changes so it is hard to keep up with her, but I doubt many women could cope, even if they thought you were a great husband and I am not saying I am - she is still my wife and we are still happy. It is finding the right balance sometimes. Does anyone else have a similar experience?
2007-10-27 09:44:35 · 4 answers · asked by jonoxk 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It all started with my wife doing my nails one evening, the next thing I know, she's doing my make-up, I'm shaving my legs, putting on her lingerie, clothes, heels & after she had me dressed up as a girl, she confessed that she loved 80's bands, especially the ones that looked like girls, then I told her I love to crossdress & have been doing so for years, but didn't know how to tell her. Well, I showed her my wardrobe, she showed me hers and we've been sharing our clothes ever since then.
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2007-10-28 05:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by J 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I told my wife before we got married and said she did not mind. I think she would prefer that I wasn't but she has bought me undies, make-up, dresses and a really nice ladies cape. I have wardrobe full of dresses mostly maid of nurses dresses and I go and work for a lady as her maid one day a week. My wife knows the lady and is quite friendly with her. All my family know about me and two or my daughters are very encouraging
2007-10-27 12:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends,
some think its ok as long as its something in private.
gets more tricky if you have children. Also gets more tricky if you want to do it in public, and either live as a tranny fulltime or part.
I think alot more women have a problem with it than there are ok with it.
Some women will even tell you, A man should be a man, i dont want a relationship with a woman, or a man who dresses up as one.
I think your lucky to have an understanding woman
2007-10-27 10:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by robynbiker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
phewwwwwwwwww i wud never marry some one like dat cos it gives me a creepy feeling!!!!!!!
well i dont find fault wid such ppl but wud never marry a guy like dat!!!!!!
2007-10-28 02:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by pooja s 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋