Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - October 2007

met a guy over the InterNet and fell in love with him. Later on I found out he was a bastard. I still want to sleep with him, because I am attracted to him, physically speaking, and I am in my late 20s, and I never had sex and It's high time I started.

The question is the folowing : when he comes to me should I tap into those romantic feelings, so that I will make love for my first time, or should I just have sex, no strings attatched.

Please reffrain from advice such as: you should save it for marriage/for someone that loves you back and so on. Not everybody is lucky enough to find lond on this world. Those of us who arent, work with the bad cards life has delt them with

2007-10-17 09:13:56 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

No, really! Why do I have to see straight people alllll day on television. And then, when I go to work, I have to deal with straight customers allllll day long. And then, when I come home, my straight neighbors give me h*ll for no apparent reason, allllll night long.

Seriously, why do straights throw it in our face? Why can't we just have a straight pride parade, and let the rest of the year be entirely homosexual?

For those of you fired up enough to know where this was directed, I feel it too.

And maybe now, sir, you can see just how ridiculous and bigoted your question is.

2007-10-17 08:57:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a very friendly person. In high school I hung out with the popular crowd but I never made fun of anyone and always defended some people when they were being picked on. But anyway, I had friends that were gay, lesbians, people that did not have any friends..I befriended them..etc. I never judged anyone for who they were as long as they were great friends. I had some friends that were lesbians and my sisters think I'm a lesbian because I have friends that are. My brother was mean to my gay friends calling him names and I defended my friends....my brother and I got into a big argument and i was in tears telling him I was ashamed to be his sister. Do you assume that when someone hangs out with gay or lesbians. they are too??

2007-10-17 08:48:13 · 11 answers · asked by Miss H 3

i love them they are so cool

2007-10-17 08:32:20 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you class yourself as a lesbian but are going out with a woman who was once a man are you still a lesbian ?

2007-10-17 07:55:38 · 16 answers · asked by pants777 1

2007-10-17 06:57:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it normal for me to masterbate and think of being with a woman, instead of wanting to have sex with my husband? Recently I stopped having sex with him for MANY reasons. But even when we were intamate I would think in my head of a woman being there and doing thing to me too, or when he is performing oral, I imagine it being a woman. I like to look at woman pictures,and woman on woman. Do a lot of woman do this and are too shy to talk about it? I know a lot of woman that do, they just never speak about it.

2007-10-17 06:39:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

after a guy knows you are a lesbian and/or reads your profile (myspace, 360, everything else) and knows you have no interest in talking or having anything to do with guys, how many still try?
im wondering cause im bored at work and nearly every girl on 360 is a lesbian that wants nothing to do with dudes

2007-10-17 06:22:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is that stupid song so popular amongst straight people? I fail to understand how celebrating through song the story of a husband and wife writing and answering personal ads for a tryst/affair is remotely romantic at all. To me it shows lack of committment, lack of character, and lack of good communication skills. Am I wrong for feeling this way?

2007-10-17 06:19:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some people say Christians, for example, are bigots because they use the Bible to justify their beliefs that people are not born gay.

I would like to hear your point of view of how Christians are misusing the Bible and what really makes them a bigot.

Thank you, I look forward to some great answers.

I'm going to lunch so I'll be back in 45 minutes.

2007-10-17 06:15:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-17 05:33:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just broke up with my bf and I cant seem to find any descent men..Where are yall?

2007-10-17 04:49:55 · 10 answers · asked by Amber L 1

I just learned the LGBT is the default category which explains a lot. Shouldn't the default category be something like pop culture or just stuff?

2007-10-17 04:01:16 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3

This comment was left by another member in response to "why do people hate gays"... I thought it pointed to a very "real" problem that lies within the straight mentality... do "straight" people keep their "straight stuff" at home??...

here's his comment...:



Most people hate gays because they (gays) say they want to be treated equally to everyone else, yet they purposely set themselves apart from the rest of society, the same way black people do. If you want to be accepted by society you have to be part of it. If your gay, keep your gay stuff at home. The sad part of all this is that some gays, and blacks as well do fit perfectly into society, but because of the "extremists" they cause their own people to suffer.

2007-10-17 03:42:42 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-17 03:26:16 · 13 answers · asked by afsane r 2

he is all the time siting on my leg and flirting with me and all my guy friends like the girls do and he talks like a girl and he always said he has a girl friend but im a football player and he just is geting on my nerves i dont want to be to mean b/c his brother is on the football team and every thing but i just dont no what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-17 03:22:02 · 10 answers · asked by Jeffrey F 1

Hi all, I am a gay; is there any method to make straight guys to sleep with me? Does anybody have such successful experience? Thanks.

2007-10-17 02:43:18 · 16 answers · asked by Scorpio 1

Okay, So I had this dream that I was a lesbian!! I didn't do anything but kiss the girl, who I have no idea who it is. We didn't do anything else but kiss. I am extremely happy in my relationship with my guy, but last night we had argued about us not spending enough time together. Does this mean anything.

2007-10-17 02:41:47 · 7 answers · asked by Blue Arizona 3

I personally would... bi or lesbian I don't really care for that matter all because I accept who I am.

2007-10-17 02:22:54 · 20 answers · asked by bas 1

This is a serious question, and, no, I do not need to see a shrink.

2007-10-17 02:04:47 · 5 answers · asked by David 5

Most guys I fall for are JERKS, so why is it that the fist nice guy I fall for is bi but leans more to likeing guys?

2007-10-17 00:14:47 · 10 answers · asked by invisable1 1

2007-10-16 23:07:03 · 16 answers · asked by Linda Fallsrock 2

My opinion is that they are just sad people who try to find their own identity. How should the society react towards them? I was also wondering. Have they commited a sin because they have changed their sex? but arent creaturesw of the God or not? is it theur problem that they werent born as normal persons?

2007-10-16 22:54:01 · 11 answers · asked by Lina 2

Racism, sexism, and homophobia are all part of one big topic in general: discrimination.

Oppressing or hating someone for who they are.

My question is, would you say that they are identical enough to be compared fairly.

Response?

2007-10-16 22:28:18 · 17 answers · asked by Kiefer H 4

2007-10-16 20:32:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-16 19:54:11 · 8 answers · asked by Nekisha r 2

Who all out there (guys & girls), like to be dominated my a female during intercourse? What kinds of things do you like them to do to you or you be made to do and what are your limits? Restrained, punished, ect?

2007-10-16 18:32:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

well atleast my school..they just have it off which is pathetic..i really hate school but..that day should be a school day so we can be able to learn about dis amazing leader and why he is honored

2007-10-16 17:41:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

....I know every word to every song Natalie Merchant ever sang?

2007-10-16 15:41:43 · 22 answers · asked by JonBoy74 5

ok, me and this girl have been childhood best friends. Our familes were close and because I have no sisters I thought of her as my sister.
well ever since we went off to college we have been seperated (havent seen her in over 5 years). Her mother had died of cancer before that gap and I saw her at the funeral, but that was the last time.

Well years later: downtown I saw her, I was excited to see her..but sad that she looked different (tired). Anyway, I noticed that she seemed a little uncomfortable and i said whats wrong? she told me that she was waiting for a friend to go to lunch. Me being so excited to see my close friend again asked if I could join her. she at first declined and I was like "why not?" she said in a low voice "since we are old friends and i dont know why im telling you this but you might need to know..im lesbian, and im meeting my girl.

it didnt hit me until i realized what she meant, she looked relaxed. but I felt wierd and so I told her "i have to go..."

2007-10-16 15:37:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous