if you class yourself as a lesbian but are going out with a woman who was once a man are you still a lesbian ?
2007-10-17 07:55:38 · 16 answers · asked by pants777 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I believe that you still are a lesbian. I have quite a few lesbian friends & they know I cross-dress, as well as one of my best friends and they love to dress me up & take me out as one of the girls. They know I'm married & nothing happens between me & the girls, but they have set me up with a couple of guys every now & then.
jk
2007-10-20 14:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a girl/woman and like people who look and behave like a girl or a woman, you are just a Good Taste Girl !!
So behaviour is more important than the presence of some organs or other!
If you like the "girl", just love her!
And forget about suppoused definitions, for we are always different from any other person, though we have many things in common.
For instance, some women, born with female organs are not able to get pregnant or bear children -beacuse of any sickness or just age! Nannies are as "TG"s or "TS"s!! Real Women!!.
SO, girls who don't want to have children are the same as some other Girls by Will !! And people who decide to be a nice girl/woman, and behave like the girls we know and like, are as much girls as any other one!
And if you just love or desire one of those girls, just love her and enjoy your life together!!! Don't worry about labels or other peoples mental confusions, stupid biases and irrational hates. Let them rot in their own mental illness!
Just love her!
Then, if she has the "thing" necessary, under those panties, you can even have children, as you might be pregnant, if you want. If she is already missing that little part she had, well, she is just a plain common woman, only that can't bear children, not generate it: One girl as so many other. And if she turns you on, love the girl you are with!!
And if you even like the word lesbian, well, enjoy being a lesbian with her!!!
Life is so diverse, we can only accept it as it comes, and our control is to make it better from that start.
Myself, I'd love also to be loved by a nice girl like you!!... anyone there?
Lumi Nhu...
2007-10-17 11:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lilly Nuh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A transwoman, is a woman that was born into a mans body so therefore realistically is personally a woman so if a woman was in a relationship with a transwoman it would still technically make her a lesbian.
2007-10-18 02:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by arianrhod86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A transwoman is a woman. There are two women in that relationship, who can happily identify as lesbians. But identity is a wholly personal affair. We can never tell a woman she isn't a lesbian for dating one person or another. There is no such thing as "technically bi." If she chooses to identify as a lesbian and is comfortable that way. It's no one else's place to decide or speculate about her sexuality.
2007-10-17 08:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by Steve C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're referring to a transsexual woman, she was NEVER a man, so yes, a woman in a relationship with a transwoman is lesbian.
2007-10-17 08:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Of course your a lesbian. I have never know one, but from what I understand they are never really men to begin with.
2007-10-17 08:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i guess so because the ''man'' is now a ''woman'' so you(a woman) and the woman are both females.
2007-10-18 16:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by Desiree Mu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess so since the girlfriend is not longer a man
2007-10-17 08:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by bregweidd 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to class yourself as anything. It is just a silly label. Just enjoy
2007-10-17 10:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ye cos shes female now
2007-10-19 02:31:07 · answer #10 · answered by weirdlittlebritain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋