sex or masterbate??????????????

Question

Is it normal for me to masterbate and think of being with a woman, instead of wanting to have sex with my husband? Recently I stopped having sex with him for MANY reasons. But even when we were intamate I would think in my head of a woman being there and doing thing to me too, or when he is performing oral, I imagine it being a woman. I like to look at woman pictures,and woman on woman. Do a lot of woman do this and are too shy to talk about it? I know a lot of woman that do, they just never speak about it.

I am not a lesban, and I do not think I would ever act out these fantasies. I have had the oppurtunity recently to be with a few womna and did not do it. It is a fantasy! Here is part two, why is every one so dang rude?

Answer 1

seeing guy/on/guy repulses me but I have fun with my husband & we like to watch girl/on/girl mostly because the female body is very sensual... I like to fantasize about being with a woman... not sure I'd follow thru with it..

but its fun to fantasize and masturbate... ;)

Answer 2

It could be for several reasons. First of all, women are equally turned on by watching male/female, female/female, and animal sex - they may not be aware of it or may deny it but physically their bodies respond to it.

It may be that you have either bi or lesbian tendencies or it may just be that either your problems with your husband are interfering with your enjoyment of sex or that he's just not a good lover. A side thought, fantasizing about women may be a "safe" way to "cheat" on your husband in that you may not consider it right to "cheat" with or imagine another man, but a woman is sorta not cheating.

In the end, you are the best expert about you, ask yourself what you want and where you should be.

Answer 3

wait and notice together with her. If she's long previous off the pills and does not prefer to have a toddler, this could be her way of no longer getting pregnant. The condom's in her handbag is a foul sign, why could she prefer them? She couldv'e stayed on the pill and been ok. i could be a splash leary of her ideal now. some thing isn't ideal together with her.

Answer 4

uuuuuummmmm....I think in the long run, your husband is in for a disappointment,
You stated you've stopped having sex with him for other reasons as well.
If you love him, you have some issues to work out if you're going to stay.
If the love is gone, and when the dust settles, bringing your fantasies to life is an option

Answer 5

Hands are hands, no matter what other body parts they are attached to.

Lips are lips, no matter what other body parts they are attached to.

Mouths are mouths, no matter what other body parts they are attached to.

Etc. Etc. Etc.

I enjoy sex and I enjoy masturbate. How do you express yourself?

Can't help with how women feel. My sense is it all boils down to the individual, regardless of the shape of their chromosome (X vs. Y). How open minded are you as an individual? Are you going to let closed-minded individuals dictate how you express yourself and how you love others?

Answer 6

dude, don't worry
doin tht doesn't mean your gay.
ur rigth people will deny it
but its how your body works and thts wht matters,...
if u have a gd relationship with ur husand,..
then try talkin about some of ur sexual fantasies...
u may find he is into the idea of u and another woman...
and then take it from there...

Answer 7

A lot of women don't. Admit it honey, you are a lesbian and have always been but were afraid to admit.

Answer 8

That's why its called a fantasy, its something you think about that you normally wouldn't do and it gets your motor hummin'!

Answer 9

I am not into girls, at all. I would say you are either bi-sexual or a lesbian.

(I am a chick by the way... don't let my avatar fool ya)

Answer 10

Its normal if you are a lesbian.