He tells me I'm the only woman he will ever be with but that he "needs" man sex occassionally. I want to hear from others about this. I'm no prude, but I have a hard time with this. He also spends lots of time in chat rooms, etc. He was able to manage this openess in a previous relationship. We are only together for about a year, and had lots of ups and downs. I think his priority should be this relationship, but he continuously defends his "need". Share with me throughts and experiences around bi-sexuality, homosexuality, open relationships, what works and doesn't. I just can't seem to get past the fact that he defends this and makes it so important. If that's the case, why be with me? He doesn't want to "live the gay life". I want to be able to make a decision as to whether I can work this out or not. Im not so insensitive I wouldn't be able to allow someone to be who they are, but I can't help but think this is about "desires" and something that can be discerned.
2007-03-21
04:50:45
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