He says he is not in love with her or having sex with her,
saving money to leave, and can't wait to spend the rest of
his life with me.
But he is really doing nothing to make it happen and he won't move in with me.
2007-03-21 03:57:01 · 12 answers · asked by mickeyme 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It could possibly be a financial reason why hes not leaving. There could be many reasons. Yes its true he might never leave his wife but you should give him somewhat of a chance. But you really don't know if you don't put yourself out there. Give him time. He might not be moving in with you because hes just getting to know you. Moving in is a big step. But it will be much better once he leaves his wife. But its all in what you feel. Go with your gut instinct not what hes telling you. Whatever you think is what you should go with. But I have to say you can't expect to have any type of relationship if you don't make yourself somewhat vulnerable.
Plus if hes married and he cheats on her with you before a divorce than he would be liable to pay his wife more than half of all possessions.
But you never know. You never know what people are doing or thinking.
2007-03-21 04:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by Some Random Guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am soo sorry sweet heart. He is not going to leave her. She may just end up leaving him. I am involved in the same thing and I know if he left his partner for me I would not be able to trust him. Try gettin a man that loves you and only you. That way when you both are together you would trust him.
2007-03-21 04:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If and when this clown gets the courage to leave his wife, he will decide that he needs time to be free and date all sorts of men. Kick him to the curb now. You are being used!
2007-03-21 05:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's takeing his good ol time with it,then maybe he's not sure if he wants to do it or not,just give him sometime with it,if you leaves her and gets with,then he gets with you,if he doesn't,then just no hard feelings and move on.theres always so other guy out there that will treat you better than him.
2007-03-21 04:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not going to happen. He's not your boyfriend, you are his mistress. Drop the loser immediately, give yourself some time to heal your broken heart and find yourself a true boyfriend...one who is devoted to you and not an adulterous affair.
2007-03-21 04:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by castle h 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Keep on waiting. It sounds like he's not going to, Sorry.
2007-03-21 04:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by ron s 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he really wanted to leave his wife then he would have done it already...maybe you shouldnt wait up.
2007-03-21 04:46:30 · answer #7 · answered by Libby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's just a typical user. He wants his cake and eat it too.
Dump this jerk. Find yourself someone who cares about YOU and not just himself.
Good luck.
2007-03-21 04:20:58 · answer #8 · answered by Yoda Green 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They never leave and, even if he did, how could you trust him not to cheat on you??
2007-03-21 04:02:12 · answer #9 · answered by Skidoo 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sorry buddy, he will never leave his wife
2007-03-21 04:02:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋