Could a man have had sex with a woman, and still br Gay?

Question

I've had sex with a woman twice. Once was my first time. I really liked it. But after I had sex with a man, I lost my desire for women. The second time, I sort of felt forced into it. And I was curious if I'd like it more than men. I didn't. So, I consider myself Gay. Just as some Straight people have tried Gay sex, but didn't (or did) like it; and don't consider theirselves Gay.

Answer 1

Yeah on the Real world Denver. The guy, Daivs is gay and he had sex with women, and he says that he like to have sex with women, as well as men.

Answer 2

Yes I know some gay men who had sex with women, but they usually had reasons for why they did it. 1) they were just trying to fit in, didn't want to accept that they were attracted to guys 2) curious to see if they could, but then thought about guys while doing it 3) call themself gay but realize that they are bisexual to a degree...thus they find sex with women to be okay but prefer sex with men 4) have had sex with women but did not enjoy it and do not feel any romantic interest for women, only men, and thus while they could have sex with women (because they do see beauty in woman) they prefer men sexually AND romantically and finally the last thing I've been told by my gay friends who've slept with women is 5) that they could force themself to even be sexually attracted to a woman (let alone have sex with them) but do not ever have to force themselves to be sexually attracted to a man. (coincidently the hetero friends I have who have slept with a someone of the same sex but still consider themselves hetero have said similar things.....making the point that it's not impossible for them to perform sexually, but that they are naturally inclined and feel forced, do not enjoy it, have no real and natural attraction and that they do not have romantic attractions either).

I, personally, cannot say much else because I have never been sexually or romantically attracted to the opposite sex, only the same sex. So my answer is based upon friends of mine, homo and hetero, and what they have said regarding the subject to other friends who have asked similar questions like this.

Answer 3

Theirs three categories. A person is either gay=Has sex w/ only the same sex, and has no feelings toward the opposite sex. Straight=Has sex and only attracted to the opposite sex. Bi=Has sex with men and woman, and are attracted to both. Can be aroused by a man or woman.
If you werent attracted to woman and you are gay then you couldnt get an erection to have sex with a woman. But as you mentoned you did have sex with 2 woman. You got an erection. You are bi. You might just like men better. Your preference is a man rather than a woman but you can deal with both.

Answer 4

Yeah youre still gay.
Known several gay men to have sex w/ women. Gayness is who you are inside not the sexual act.

Answer 5

if you prefer it with men, and you're a man, then yes, you are gay.
Even if you never ever have male sex again, you are still gay if you're attracted to dudes.

Answer 6

In this day and age you can have sex with whoever you want. Why does it have to have a label? Just be safe with whoever you feel like boinking. That way you can continue having sex.

Answer 7

Yeah, I have a friend who is gay and that was one of the indication when he was growing up.

Answer 8

I find neither women or my hand "sexually attractive", but I've had sex with both.

It's all in the fantasy...

Answer 9

Yes - they are just trying to finally come to the conclusion that they are who they are. Just accept yourself for who you are do not try and change and accept a different lifestyle.

Answer 10

Yes.