Because all my other boyfriends just used to give me a little kiss so i never really knew how it was to french kiss and i'm nearly 16 and i dnt even kno and i'm afriad i'll mess up infront of my new boyfriend and he could kiss really good because we've tried once and i got scared that i will mess up and pushed him away.=( Please help me!
2007-03-21 04:32:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I mean i'm the kinda girl..i dnt really rush things..but the way he looks at me and my lips...it's just i get so scared and freeze up!..and i want him to be satisifed with my kisses as he is satisified with me other wise.
2007-03-21 05:18:11 · update #1
Dude..wet yr lips and smooch all you want.
2007-03-27 19:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is never easy for anybody at any age. When I met my wife 18 years ago, it wasn't easy kissing her because everybody is different and the way that you turn your head and open your mouth and everything else goes into how you kiss. It all takes time to get it right with somebody and what seems right for one person, might not be the right thing for the next person.
So, if you care for this person as much as you say, you will work out any minor quirks that you two have. Remember he might be nervous also and might not know how to kiss either. You are young and by the time you figure out how to kiss perfect, you won't be thinking about how to kiss anymore.
Have fun, and don't do anything that you don't want to do. Don't let anybody fool you into having sex until you are absolutly ready too. It only takes one time to get pregnant.
2007-03-21 12:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by Joel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please refrain from going that far.
You do not need to french kiss. Save this for the man you choose to marry.
Protect yourself by carefully choosing a mate that would base your relationship on other criteria.
Things like refraining from flirting with other men or women in his case.
1. His sincerity for caring for your well being and your caring for his.
2. Did he get to school today,
3. How is his health,
4. Does he stand up for what he believes in.
5 Does he get passing grades.
6. Does he have good hygiene.
7. How does he get along with his parents and siblings.
Make him earn your kissing him as a reward for him accomplishing these and I hope he is grateful for your attention not just how far he can go or how experience a kisser you are. He is fortunate to have a girl that has refrained from french kissing. Save this for someone special. This is your power, your gift from God to establish a relationship with a man that will become the father of your children. Use it wisely
2007-03-21 11:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by granny_sp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is a tricky subject. Everyone can kiss, it's just finding the person that kisses right for you. People have their own style of kissing. Just go with the flow, if he is more experienced, talk to him about how you feel. I am sure he will understand and go slow. If you are ready, it should come naturally, it did with me. Hope this helped! Oh and don't slobber...that is extremely unattractive.
2007-03-21 11:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by troublz1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen from experiance;do not french-kiss and keep your legs crossed;and work on school work;make A or better grades;be all you can be;be the best student ever;being you be under 18;dont worry about kissing;just concern yourself about life and being the best person you can be;worry about getting ready for college and the military;;you will have time for all that latter;the military can put you through college and military and get paid for all that;dont worry about boyfriends;just develope yourself;and all males will come running to you;have a nice life;go to church.
2007-03-29 09:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel. i was scared to french kiss my first time too. but i couldnt live in fear. im not going to lie my first french kiss was very awkward but my partner understood because i notified them it was my first time. so i think the best thing u can do is tell your boyfriend that it will be your first time and he should understand. and then that way you still get a hot kiss ; )
2007-03-21 11:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by Libby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everybody born knowing how to kiss,so you are not the only one who's scared about doing well.Kissing naturally and you just have to let it flow.
2007-03-29 08:31:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes everyone can do it. Some may be better than others. AS far as frenching it will come naturally to you so don't be afraid or ashamed.
2007-03-28 19:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by rexawilt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be fine! Just go with the flow! Even if it didn't go to plan (and there's no reason why it won't) if he likes you enough something little won't put him off...don't be pressured into sleeping with anyone though just to 'keep them'.
2007-03-29 10:37:02 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thre are friendly kissing and love kissing and it is suppose to be for the one you love and not something everyone do cause they can.
2007-03-21 11:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kiss him for christ sake. Go with the flow and don't dwell on it so much.
2007-03-27 00:30:58 · answer #11 · answered by fagwankers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋