2007-03-21 03:56:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Cheating is wrong no matter who or why. You friend is wrong and the married man is wrong. It does not matter whether the relationship is heterosexual or homosexual. it is not fair to the other person in the marriage to have lies deceptions involved. If this man leaves his family for your friend, your friend will be contributing to the hurting or at least one person, more if children are involved.
2007-03-21 04:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by krupsk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok... My ex was married when I met her. Notice I said my ex... I'm sure that now she has second thoughts about leaving her spouse. That's a very rocky road, and, one that can not be backtracked. They should probably just stop seeing each other, especially if the marriage is a good one. Now if the married man is not happy in his marriage, then your friend should wait to get involved until after the marriage is over. This was the advice I got from all my friends when I met my ex, and now I wish we would have listened. Maybe we would still be together.
2007-03-21 11:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by jjspike 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if they have some real feelings for each other then they should explore what they are and see what they actually have and where it could or couldn't go from there.
There are many ways to "see" someone. See which ones are best I think. Maybe that guy should get divorced or something. Maybe not. If his current wife is female and he is gay, that is a very good reason for divorce I think.
2007-03-21 11:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of the hurt that it will cause his wife because cheating with a man is still as hurtful as cheating with a woman. Break the marrage off and do tings the propor way. there is no need to cheat.
if the feelings are mutaul to one another then he shoulndt lie to his wife about his sexuality
2007-03-21 11:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by pinkchampagne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them be. They are mature adults and can work things out for themselves. However, deception in a relationship is fatal. Is your friend willing to risk being hurt by this guy the way he is willing to hurt his wife?
There are better fish in the sea that aren't already hooked.
2007-03-21 11:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, but it's not your battle (unless you want to risk losing a friend). If his behavior bothers you, just spend less time with him.
2007-03-21 11:00:46 · answer #6 · answered by KyLeth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHEATING IS ALWAYS WRONG!!!! even if you arent the cheater, if you are "the other man/woman" you are just as bad if not worse than the cheater.
2007-03-21 11:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by Namename 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend if they know the meaning of the words "homewrecker" or "cheating".
2007-03-21 11:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a gay love triangle?
first i've heard of.
maybe they can duke it out, see who the real..eh...man.. is
2007-03-21 11:00:26 · answer #9 · answered by sobrien 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋