Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - March 2007

I found out I was bi six years ago (in 7th grade) and I haven't told anyone in all this time. I've been wanting to have someone to talk to about it but I've just never had the guts to say anything. Back then it was because I only had one friend (I was really shy) and I didn't want to risk being left alone. Now it's because me and my friends always banter about being in love with one another (I only have female friends) and when we joke around we've like, groped each other and stuff. And I have kissed one of them at a party... I'm scared they will act funny around me if I tell them, that they will get paranoid and think I got the hots for them or something. To make matters even worse I have some feelings for the friend that I kissed... and I've been acting kind of strange around her. If I tell them she will definitely suspect me... but I can't live like this and never tell anyone! I'm going crazy here, plz help?

2007-03-13 10:41:39 · 14 answers · asked by loveless_sselevol 3

A gay man could always buy his wife a strap on. A gay woman could just toss her husbands salad. I'm not trying to be offensive but you get the best of both worlds that way. You're married and your sexual desires are satisfied.

2007-03-13 10:12:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't really know if it's a disfunction and i'm sure i'm not the only guy but....i went "limp" during sex the other night?? it was some incredible sex and i'm like wtf?? i lose my hard on...what happened why did this happen...it's not her which she thinks it is but it's not?? i just would like to know what's going on...any advice or input would be nice! thanks!!

2007-03-13 10:00:24 · 3 answers · asked by whatisthis 3

The fear being; of another young man or older man,sharing the Gym or showers or barracks; whatever the case may be, who has let it be known that he is gay. The scared soldier or team mate is so afraid or hatefull of the gay guys homosexuality that he threatens violence!! He assumes the gay guy is going to attack him or what?? Does he not realize that "gay" does not mean "rapist" or "molester"? What does sexual preference have to do with ability to soldier??

2007-03-13 09:52:11 · 5 answers · asked by Faerie loue 5

O.k. so i was raised christian and one of my best friends is a really strict christian but she is o.k. with me being bisexual (well i think i am) but she said that me being bisexual means that i cant be a christian! alot of poeple have been saying that i am a bad christian or a devil worshiper (sp) and it makes me feel like i am doing something bad when i go 2 church i feel like some of the other kids are angry at me or are starring at me! and sometimes they are glareing at me....but mostly my church is supportive...Help I need to know if i am a "bad christian"

2007-03-13 09:44:30 · 29 answers · asked by blair 2

Considering how hetero's have royally ******-up marriage with a 50% divorce rate, and continually remarry as if its a contest .. should there be a moratorium on hetero marriage?

In your level-headed response, do not use religion or "because thats how its always been" as excuses. Reproduction has nothing to do marriage. Its time to put your thinking-caps on ...

2007-03-13 09:39:57 · 12 answers · asked by Active Denial System™ 6

O.k. so i'm a sophmore in high school and i was raised is different ways...my stepdad is compleatly anti-gay/lez/bi and my mom doesnt care what people are as long as their nice..my dad i'm not 2 sure...But i dont know what i am!? I am attracted to girls sometimes (well mostly) and i really like guys...but lately i havent really liked anyone, i mean i have had crushes on my guy friends and i've had crushes (have a crush) on my friend Rach......i dont know what i am?! please help me i'm so confused!

2007-03-13 09:38:46 · 10 answers · asked by blair 2

It seems over the past few years, it has become "wrong" to speak out against homosexuality. Any time someone says something against it, they are labeled a 'homophobe'. Just because some of us have our morales and are against the acts of homosexuality, doesnt mean we hate them or are "homophobic". We just believe its wrong and should not be promoted as its becoming today. Just imagine in the future, your little kids reading the Prince and The Prince in kindergarten. Today it seems they are just trying to shove homosexuality in our face. More and more gay characters on tv and so on. If you want to live your life that way, fine. Do it. But do it privately. Cut down on the 'acting' gay crap and keep it to yourselves. Dont throw it in our face. Fine you are gay. But its not like i want to know about it. What is with the gay talk and walk and so on? Be gay but why do you over do it? Also, dont get mad at others who oppose you. Most dont HATE gays, we hate the acts and find them wrong.

2007-03-13 09:34:16 · 3 answers · asked by Bucfan 2

The Evidence
Jesus was one of the gentlest people who ever lived. He was no John Wayne. Usually we label such gentle souls pansies no matter what their sexual preference.Jesus totally rejected the masculine code of valour and violence universally espoused in his time. Today such people are called commies, draft dodgers and queers.Jesus had plenty of opportunity to have sex with women, but he always avoided it. If a modern man did the same, we would assume he was gay.Jesus hung out with disreputable people, including hookers, and all manner of sinners, including sodomites. If a modern man kept such bad company, we would not assume he was 100% heterosexualJesus associated almost exclusively with men. He and his friends were physically intimate with each other, putting their heads in each other's laps to dine. If a modern North American male behaved this way, it might raise some eyebrows.Jesus's "groupies" competed, each claiming to love Jesus the most.John lying with his head on Jesus's breast. Straight men don't do that, at least not in our culture.

2007-03-13 09:31:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

At present gay bars can turn away people they suspect are heterosexual. The law may be changed soon in the UK. What are your views?

I go to gay bars in Manchester and find that on Saturday nights there are many straight girls (usually in groups of 10-15) trying to get in to gay bars. Some go 'to look at the freak show', some to try and 'turn' a gay guy and some to get away from the hassle of straight guys coming on to them.

Gay bars where created for gay men. Somewhere they can go and be themselves without fear of prejudice. If the new law is passed this will mean they have no safe haven.

Many heterosexuals enter gay bars and expect gay to conform to their heterosexual norms and will often laugh at two guys being affectionate together. Many also ask personal questions like "What do you do in bed?" They treat the gay guys like curiosities.

I do not think that straight people should be refused altogether but I think the bars should have some discretion in refusing.

2007-03-13 09:28:37 · 39 answers · asked by JOHN P 2

Like, what's the point?

2007-03-13 09:25:14 · 7 answers · asked by Timmbbo 1

I know this guy that is openly bisexual im a closeted bisexual I have an obssesion about seing him being around him want ing to see him if hes not on the buss i get sort of sad. But i swear im not sexually attracted to him and I dont really want to be his friend its just that for some reason i like for him to be around is it i look up to him because he was brave enough to come out and I feel confident around him its really weird what do you think.

2007-03-13 09:21:47 · 4 answers · asked by itsthebeesknees123 1

Hey ive just heard about camps where they send gay people to try to "save" them. You cant save someone from something thats not bad. People are so stupid sometimes. Plus, isnt that impossible to turn someone straight anyways?

2007-03-13 09:17:14 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2

I know it makes you feel good but why? please answer back.

2007-03-13 09:16:19 · 8 answers · asked by XAmazingGraceX 1

2007-03-13 08:56:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just discovered the list of porn sites he has been visiting and a few were of shemales and trannies. I know men like porn and it's very common evenwhen they are getting alot of sex from their girlfriends, but do I have to be worried or could it just be curiosity? I asked him and he denied he looked up the sites.He said he was angry that I questioned him and that the sites popped up onthier own. I told him since he got Norton virus protection no pop ups come up anymore. He refused to talk to me anymore. I do not know what to do now. Does anybody have any advice?

2007-03-13 08:51:22 · 5 answers · asked by Freaked out 1

My neighbor was arrested at his home yesterday and I was wondering if that was the reason?

2007-03-13 08:34:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Dont you think its strange that only one virsion of the christian bible exist, of corce theres the ing james virsion and what not but theyt only depict him as a devine being. Concidering how many followers Jesus had makes it hard to belive that no one ever wrote there own account of jesuses behavior... maby one of the desipels...

2007-03-13 08:34:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this girl and my friend hooked her up with my digits. She might call tonight. ...............suggestions on conversation...........PLEASE. THANKS! YOU ALL ARE FABULOUS.

2007-03-13 08:24:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm doing a paper on how gays get treated unfairly.

Unfortunately, I am not gay so I don't know.
If you see any problems with how gays get treated or if you know anything about the topic.... please reply.

2007-03-13 08:23:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-03-13 08:15:23 · 7 answers · asked by istungu 1

Let me know if the same way i feel you feel. because this it our opportunite to shine to get back and let people know that we are not only singers or rappers but we are a people who want a chance.

2007-03-13 08:11:07 · 9 answers · asked by shereda b 1

serious or funny answers welcome.

2007-03-13 08:00:27 · 11 answers · asked by ? 6

2007-03-13 07:52:28 · 14 answers · asked by Brooke K 1

2007-03-13 07:52:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 19 and my boyfriend was looking up pre teens porn online and we had a huge argument.I asked why was he looking up "pre" and he said because he was looking for 18 year olds.(my boyfriend 27) He says he likes 18 year old which disgusts me because they're so many american girls who are 13-17 who looked fully devloped as if they are 21 or even 30 year olds!
What I am saying is if he can say he specifically likes 18 year old and that 17 and 18 is a huge difference he must think I am a fool. Most underaged girls are looking older.Yes 18 is the legal age but he feels its okay because its legal.Morally it isn't.He always talk $/h!t about his older friends being perverts and how he thinks its wrong because they are too old for them but I really think deep down inside he knows hes the perv. I bet when hes there age he will be just like them.

2007-03-13 07:38:15 · 3 answers · asked by eurasia 1

People, why are you standing by Gen. Pace? After his remarks, he refused to apologize. I am straight, but I am deeply offended that he won't allow someone to support their own fine country JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO THE SAME SEX. He even compared it to adultery! Not true at all. Homosexuality is neither a choice nor a sin, and it is perfectly normal.

General Peter Pace, I find you to be immoral.

What do you think on this topic?

2007-03-13 07:29:42 · 29 answers · asked by Busta 5

Doesn't every group of people in America have just as much right as others have, to seek to infuence legislation?

Have any homosexuals ever sought to do anything that would infringe on your liberties or prevent you from living your own life in your own chosen way?

Or are homosexuals inherenlty evil persons who should not exist? Were the Nazis correct in sending them to the death camps?

Were the English authorities correct in sending Oscar Wilde to prison for a year, which resulted in his writing "The Ballad of Reading Gaol"?

Should homosexuals be forced to submit to hormone treatmnet to try to "convert" them to becoming "straight"? Should they be sent to re-education camps?

2007-03-13 07:22:15 · 21 answers · asked by fra59e 4