O.k. so i'm a sophmore in high school and i was raised is different ways...my stepdad is compleatly anti-gay/lez/bi and my mom doesnt care what people are as long as their nice..my dad i'm not 2 sure...But i dont know what i am!? I am attracted to girls sometimes (well mostly) and i really like guys...but lately i havent really liked anyone, i mean i have had crushes on my guy friends and i've had crushes (have a crush) on my friend Rach......i dont know what i am?! please help me i'm so confused!
2007-03-13 09:38:46 · 10 answers · asked by blair 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
it sounds like you're in that confused phase a lot of people go through. Just take things a day at a time and accept whatever sexual feelings you have. Eventually you'll figure it out.
2007-03-13 19:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by carora13 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have not come to terms with your sexuality yet. During the teenage years it is normal for girls to be attracted to girls. In fact there was a study that 70% of girls from 17 to 21 have had some kind of same sex encounter. If you are not sure, If I were you I would experiment. However, take it outside of the school and away from friends. It could backfire on you. You might decide that your attraction to girls was just a passing infatuation. If you get labeled in school as a lesbian, you may be in for some tough times.
2007-03-21 15:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by vivib 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you didn't state your age,but if your younger(the early teens)your feelings are very normal...not sure of your sexuality.As you grow older your preferences will become clear.
You could be bi sexual,which for some is the best of both worlds.I am lesbian and have known since I was 16.
You will have to decide by your feelings and your heart which preference you have.Your family shouldn't determine your preference because if you let them you could be miserable conforming to their views
Take your time and see where your heart leads you..
2007-03-21 15:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by softy74501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some professional help as you are confused. I would guess that you aren't gay, but just like your male friends or even look up to them because they are athletic or bright and popular. The fact that you are attracted to girls leads me to believe that you will eventually go straight. I hope so as being bi is hard for all of the people involved.
2007-03-21 14:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by hazel a 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what a sophmore is, but I think you are bi. I wouldn't tell your dad. I would explore your sexuality and see how things go. Send me a message if you want a chat! I am gay and found it difficult to tel my Mum. Good luck!
2007-03-21 16:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by james c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thatz just it your confused you have to take some time and think about maybe experiment with a girl to really see if you like girls or is it just something normal alot of people go though
2007-03-20 13:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by Rae 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long that you don't have any sexual desires for the same sex then you're completely straight. I can say that you just admire them because they look good or they have a sense of humor or something like that ;)
2007-03-21 01:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by khatzzz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry yourself, too much about such things. You're still so young to be putting yourself in certain categories and living up to it for the rest of your life.
2007-03-20 09:38:23 · answer #8 · answered by Cheng 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your about the age i was when i felt that way....im 25 now and completely bisexual....dont stress on it too much. things will workout
2007-03-15 09:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry but pops sounds like a duts
moms okay,
2007-03-20 11:03:34 · answer #10 · answered by Norweiginwood420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋