I just discovered the list of porn sites he has been visiting and a few were of shemales and trannies. I know men like porn and it's very common evenwhen they are getting alot of sex from their girlfriends, but do I have to be worried or could it just be curiosity? I asked him and he denied he looked up the sites.He said he was angry that I questioned him and that the sites popped up onthier own. I told him since he got Norton virus protection no pop ups come up anymore. He refused to talk to me anymore. I do not know what to do now. Does anybody have any advice?
2007-03-13 08:51:22 · 5 answers · asked by Freaked out 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Thank all of you who have replied to my question. I want to add a few more details that I neglected before.We live apart and I have not ever seen him looking at porn while I am around. I found the site history of what he has been looking at when I was about to search for something. He apparently looks at alot of different types of porn but it shocked me to see there were shemale and trannies in the mix. He only looked at 2 sites but he downloaded 2 short clips. I have not ever suspected he was into men before but I have to wonder. He has been wanting to have anal sex for the last few months and I won't do it. We will be celebrating our 4th yr anniversary this month and it has been a rough road to get to this point. He has cheated repeatedly on me with a woman who is 10 yrs older than him. She lives in 3 block away & right around the corner from the neighborhood bar. This affair has just ended finally. I guess I am scared I have a new worry.
2007-03-15 08:22:11 · update #1
You've got some good answers here... but first and foremost, this does not sound like a very stable relationship. The cheating, no matter who it's with, is a far bigger concern than his interest in that sort of porn.
My guess would be that he is bi or bi-curious. He obviously seems to enjoy sex with women, so he probably is not gay.
But I agree with Anonymous Girl... the interest in transgenders could very well be a way of avoiding the fact that it would be homosexual behavior if he had sex with one. This is a very commom "cop-out".
2007-03-16 11:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by Zombie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TS Porn is actually one of the fastest growing segments of the porn industry. But just because he enjoys seeing shemals doesn't mean he's gay. Shemales tend to be exaggerated visions of femininity (or at least what men thinkn that is) so aside from the obvious difference between them and women, there are some incredibly attracive transsexuals out there.
2007-03-15 06:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jasmine L 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely. Most who chase after "trannies" don't want TSs, GGs, or any other real women. Instead, they want feminized men. There was on TS who was on hormones and scheduled for surgery. Her boyfriend did not accept her as a woman, but he pretended she was merely a feminized men for his own sick pleasure. He dumped out her hormones, cancelled her surgical appointment, and beat her ever time she tried to get more hormones or reschedule her surgery.
They want to be gay without receiving the consequences of such behavior. So they loophole to themselves that if they are attracted to men in dresses, that somehow makes them somehow straight. Likewise, there are gay men who dress as women (usually TG and not TS) in order to feel like a heterosexual female rather than admitting their homosexuality.
There is no such thing as "TS porn." It's always TG porn. TSs hate their equipment and want it removed. They'd NEVER let anyone see it or touch it. Such porn exists as a means to harm the reputations of TS women and prevent them from assimilating as most want to do. They need to make sure to label it as TG porn or "shemale" porn, and never as TS porn. Such porn is a part of TG culture, not TS culture.
2007-03-15 07:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is curiousity. Some shemales are remarkably attractive, and it is hard to believe they are what they are until they are totally naked. Many straight guys have a curiousity, but don't necessarily act on it except for video or picture.
2007-03-13 21:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by Fred C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, it does not make him gay. He does sound like he's ashamed of his desires and is getting hostile as a defense mechanism when you questioned him.
2007-03-13 19:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋