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Im 19 and my boyfriend was looking up pre teens porn online and we had a huge argument.I asked why was he looking up "pre" and he said because he was looking for 18 year olds.(my boyfriend 27) He says he likes 18 year old which disgusts me because they're so many american girls who are 13-17 who looked fully devloped as if they are 21 or even 30 year olds!
What I am saying is if he can say he specifically likes 18 year old and that 17 and 18 is a huge difference he must think I am a fool. Most underaged girls are looking older.Yes 18 is the legal age but he feels its okay because its legal.Morally it isn't.He always talk $/h!t about his older friends being perverts and how he thinks its wrong because they are too old for them but I really think deep down inside he knows hes the perv. I bet when hes there age he will be just like them.

2007-03-13 07:38:15 · 3 answers · asked by eurasia 1 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

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Umm you do know that preteen means girls 11-14?
Girls who have just reached puberty/adolescents.
Alot of girls do look older and the legal age being 18, its not hard to make people think a girl is 18 when she is really 14.
But you shouldn't let this go with your boyfriend, if he was looking for 18yr old porn, why didn't he type in teen?
Preteen is just sick for anyone, of ANY age to be looking at.
Bottom line though for your question no, i definitly do not think it is ok for men to like underage girls in any way shape or form is it sick and wrong and people who try and justify it, their is something wrong with their heads, really.
I think you know he's a perv deep down inside aswell, he does like younger girls how young is maybe debatable, i dont know him, but he has a gf 8yrs younger than him in you.

2007-03-13 14:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by Chyme 6 · 0 0

Men are genetically programmed to be attracted to teenage girls, physically.

A 16 year olds body and a 19 year olds body is exactly the same in most cases. Do you expect them to find the exact same body unattractive, physically?

However, they’re not mentally attracted. They have no desire to be in a relationship with anyone whose not mentally developed. Which is why they go out with people their own age.

He’s not a pervert in reality. Not at all. If that is the case then all men are perverts. And you should just stay single.

A lot of 16 year old girls fantacise about David Beckham. A 41 year old man. Is that natural? Isn’t that really weird?

There’s a big difference between fantasy, and physical attraction, and the real world we live in.

The teenage girls who are in love with David Beckham probably think he’s hot, but that doesn’t mean they particularly want to start a physical relationship with someone in their 40s!?

Sorry to be blunt, but your own personal morals are that he’s a pervert. Your moralising. Which is your own personal issue. Not your boyfriends fault.

I’d be more worried if your boyfriend didn’t find 18 year old girls attractive

2014-01-17 11:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Cj 2 · 0 0

Now grant it when I meet the girl that became my wife when she was just 17( I was 10 years older) we got married a year latter.But never thought about being older.
That's all I can say about that.

2007-03-13 22:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by blakree 7 · 1 1

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