A friend of mine was always into men, and was homophobic at one point. Then, she moved out of her parent's house, and after I lost touch with her for about a year, we reconnected again and she told me she now had a girlfriend. I thought it was some sort of phase since she's always been attracted to men and looked down upon homosexuality. However, her last few relationships have all been with girls and the last one has been going strong for nearly 2 yrs. I'm trying to be supportive of her, but I think she's kidding herself and that the only reason she suddenly became gay is because she has had bad experiences getting burned by men in the past. I feel that her sudden sexual reorientation is not authentic given her track record. Is it possible for someone to suddenly realize they're gay after 20 yrs? I would really appreciate some constructive feedback here.
2007-02-21
05:35:56
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