Well, its complicated right now. Because i have two gf's and I like them both alot. I can't really choose one from the other.
2007-02-21 04:03:48 · 15 answers · asked by Nikksta 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't see anything wrong with devoting your self to 2 people. As long as your open about it with your partners and they are ok with it I don't see why its anyones business.
2007-02-21 14:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by twilight_moon1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong, in my eyes, with being bisexual. There is something wrong though with having two partners at the same time.
It's about common courtesy and about taking others' feelings into account. I assume that if you were one of the two you wouldn't be happy with the situation, so what makes it right for your to do the same thing to someone else?
If you cannot "choose" then it is clear to me that at the moment a relationship isn't in your best interest. It seems you do not know what you want in a partner therefore you're between people trying to figure out who better suits you. Spend time on yourself, on your needs, and decipher what it is you're needing in another person. Once you figure that part out, weeding out the people who aren't "for you" will be easy.
But in the meantime, do the right thing and come clean or at least let them go. I cannot express to you enough that when you hurt someone with a situation like this, the hurt burns scars deeper than you can imagine. They're not over night healers... but instead pull a person back to square one as far as trust and honesty goes. You're not only messing with their heart, but with their state of mind as well.
Best wishes.
2007-02-21 04:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the people involved, and how involved the relationship becomes. The one time in my life that i had two girlfriends (having sex with 2 different people) it was overwhelming. Of course, they didn't know about each other, which made it worse. I must've aged 5 years in 2 months. It was literally hell.
It's hard enough for most of us to provide stability and attention to 1 significant other in our lives. Much less 2 or 3.
2007-02-21 04:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if they both no about each other then it should all be good. If they do not know about one another then you are cheating on them both...
But there is nothing wrong with being bi aslong as the other 2 know about each other...
2007-02-21 04:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it works for all three of you and everybody knows the situation, I can't say that anything's wrong with it.
Just so long as you're all happy.
Now, if someone isn't, then you need to rethink things . . .
2007-02-21 04:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can only have 1 partner at a time? I never knew that. I always thought people could be monogamous or polygamous.
2007-02-21 04:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well because how do you know if your not hurting them its not fair to them your playing with their emotions.believe me when i say your gonna have to choose wheater you want or not in the end its only a matter of time before one figures it out
2007-02-21 04:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by BOOTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them both about it. See who sticks around. Maybe they will agree to your fantasy. Let them make the choice for you
2007-02-21 04:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by Shonda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being unfaithful. It doesn't matter what your sexual preferences are, yo ushould only be with one person at a time.
2007-02-21 04:23:02 · answer #9 · answered by Kharm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing that I can see, as long as each knows about the other.
2007-02-21 04:17:59 · answer #10 · answered by ron s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋