I had some good lesbian friends in high school. These were not bi-sexual girls, they were lesbians. I noticed a pattern in that they would prey upon girls who were confused about their sexuality in hopes of converting them to the other side. It never lasted more than a few months before the girls had realized that they weren't in fact gay, but had been taken advantage of. I also realized the irony that the tactics these girls used to sway their vitims, were the same things they claimed to despise males for. Why do lesbians do this?
2007-02-21 06:36:40 · 12 answers · asked by The Dude 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Dude are you gay?
2007-02-21 06:54:59 · update #1
If they dont do this, how do they get their partners.
2007-02-21 06:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 7⤋
Most lesbians I know don't want to get mixed up with bisexuals. But the ones who do are aware that some bi girls love women much more than men, and some bi girls end up loving lesbians so much that they lose interest in men. There isn't any real swaying if both parties want it. If a woman is truly straight, then she simply won't be swayed. And yes, it is wrong for anyone to ask out someone (gay or straight) if they tell you they aren't interested. No means no - respect it.
2007-02-21 06:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Why are you stereotyping all lesbians based on the acts of some that you know? These girls they 'preyed' upon were taken advantage of because they allowed themselves. You stated they were confused about their sexuality, therefore they are just as much to blame. Why did they use the lesbians as experiments to figure out their orientation?
2007-02-21 06:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by tmills883 5 · 5⤊ 4⤋
Most Of My Friends Don't It Because Its A Challenge For Them And Its Fun.
2007-02-21 09:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a lesbian, but i am bisexual and i know girls who have done this to other girls not matter what their preference was. It was only for sex (at least for the ones i knew, i can't speak for everyone.
2007-02-21 09:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by Shelia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You understand of course that you are asking this question in a section where most people know what being gay or lesbian is all about, right? As such you will surely understand when I say, you're full of bovine refuse. I have never, in all my days of being who I am, ever run into a Lesbian or a Gay person, who tried to convert anyone. Please note, if you wish to write fiction, do so somewhere else.
2007-02-21 06:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
Sorry, never met a lesbian who every attempted anything like this. I think it's just the people you must hang out with.
I'd suggest a new set of friends.
2007-02-21 06:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by DEATH 7 · 3⤊ 4⤋
What in Gods name are you talking about?? I have never "victimized" anyone into being with me. lol. That's about the stupidest s.hit i've ever heard in life. If a lesbian woman sees a woman whois confused about her sexuality and offers to help her experience what its lie, what would be the problem? These women aren't hardly victims. It's called a quick *****. Get over it. If no one forced them to do it, then it was consentual.
2007-02-21 07:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 6⤋
Because they think that its fun! I'm not lesbian or anything like that but I have plenty of lesbian friends that tell me that.
2007-02-21 07:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by vampiric_band_geek 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
what?!
what are you talking about?
they dont "prey" upon other girls.
Most people who come out try to teach those who are confused and , yes, in hopes, get them to be their partner.
but, "the other side" sounds sort of star wars.
2007-02-21 06:56:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Hey...why do slutty cheerleaders prey on the cutest jocks in school?
2007-02-21 06:41:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 3⤋