Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - February 2007

2007-02-09 05:04:09 · 4 answers · asked by cute_sam 1

Do you find it erotic to see a man in water or just out of the shower or bathtub? I get so turned on to see my lover with his hair and body dripping with water...

2007-02-09 04:48:26 · 22 answers · asked by beachguy_41 2

My girlfriend and I have been together for 1.5 years and have been struggling recently with being together openly. However, we're going away this weekend to VT...does anyone know any spots we should go to for fun where we can be open and comfortable?

2007-02-09 04:29:40 · 2 answers · asked by partypooper 2

people are diferrent those who have done economics they would talk about utility people differ in places, tastes feelings. but i love this beautyful friend of my we have been friends for two months but i'm so scared to tell her since i develop this feelings for her we don't communicat like before she is so scared of me and shy what must i do?

2007-02-09 04:24:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-09 04:21:47 · 33 answers · asked by sandy j 1

2007-02-09 04:17:26 · 27 answers · asked by Alexsandra Z 1

I went out with this girl on a couple of dates and I fell head over heels for her: smart, beautiful, sassy and lots of fun. On the fourth date just before we were going to make love she told me she had to tell me something, "I'm a male to female transexual". I was shocked and confused, but I loved her so much that I didn't wanna hurt her, so we actually had sex (orally and anally). Her body was exactly like a body's girl (but with male genitalia). It was more of an experience for me than anything else. I'm still sexually attracted to her. Is that normal? Please don't be harsh if you don't think it is.

2007-02-09 04:05:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why did god create pleasure in sex? why do we get attracted??

2007-02-09 04:02:10 · 9 answers · asked by suma 3

Finish the story. More details the better!!!!

Gina came down to the kitchen wering her short gray pinstripe skirt and a black bra. Lori was in his blue shirt, khacki miniskirt and wearing an around the waist apron with cherries on it. She was scrambling an egg.

"Lori, did you iron my blue blouse?" said Gina as she kissed Lori.

"Sure honey, it's hanging over by the laundry room," replied Lori.

"Thanks sweetie," said Gina as she went to go get her blouse.

"Oh it smells good. What are you making for breakfast?" asked Gina.

"Your favorite! Spanish Omelettes," replied Lori

"Mmmmm. Yummy!" replied Gina as she put her blouse on.

"Yes you are," smiled Lori as Gina smiled back.

"I'm so fortunate to have you as the homemaker for me! What would I do without you?" asked Gina.

"And I'm fortunate to have you as a breadwinner!"

"Thanks sweetie,"

"However, one thing to ask. I want a baby now.." said Lori.

Finish the story. Be creative!!!

2007-02-09 03:47:28 · 4 answers · asked by L.A. Scene 3

2007-02-09 03:46:33 · 21 answers · asked by brandi w 1

He looks like some sleazy trashy biker guy and probably has his fair share of felonies so I wonder why he thinks he is the moral compass for humanity? Or could it be he is a little too obsessed with gay people and is just trying to fight off wanting to go down and his best friend biker buddy? Just a thought…

2007-02-09 03:44:02 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

I was at Taco Bell with 2 of my friends; one is my lover's brother who is also gay but a real fem. Anyway, this guy comes in with his gf and starts making comments about my bf's bro. In the parking lot, I asked the guy if he had something to say; then say it now to my face. He tried to leave but you could tell he was really embarassed in front of his gf when I told him he was looking to get his butt kicked (of course, I used my own language). I ended up chasing him in the car; he went through red lights, stop signs and I just thought about how much of a coward he was in front of his gf. I know it was a really stupid move even though it was late with no traffic and all but do you think he'll think twice before he opens his big mouth next time. I think about the guy in the car with the girl and with his mentality; how he could look her in the face after running away from a queer. I admit, I got some satisfaction from that.

2007-02-09 03:43:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yeah, only kissing... it's funny, and girls do kiss better than my bf..

2007-02-09 03:41:13 · 4 answers · asked by sway2021 2

Free and relax you?

2007-02-09 03:31:37 · 4 answers · asked by javo 3

Since that's where we're destined to go, apparently. My question is, what exactly is it? Is it the Divine Comedy version, with lots of demons poking me with pitchforks? Or is it a place where we're destined to live out our lives without ever being able to fulfill our "unnatural urges"? Because the latter sounds awfully familiar.

2007-02-09 03:29:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I heard that it means your a lesbian but still a virgin. Is this true?

2007-02-09 03:20:29 · 3 answers · asked by Texas Rose 3

Why is it than when you go to some small rural town it hard to find even one gay person... Once in a big city you see their numbers multiply in fron of their eyes. My take it is the environment, maybe even pollution that has this effect. So if I make friends in a big town what are the chances they will eventually turn gay?

2007-02-09 03:15:29 · 8 answers · asked by Rona9 2

So like I'm out delivering Italian pastries last night and this dude pasy for his Bear claws...while bitterly lamenting about the fact that my dough nuts were neither Krispy nor Kreamy.

Anyway..I'm kind of "over it" but would like to know ..how was your pastry last night?

2007-02-09 03:11:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any suggestions on what to do when you live in a house with your partner, and your same-sex roomate (who is also gay), and you and your partner are having major problems. Then, you find yourself falling head over heals in love with your roomate? My partner knows this, as I am very honest and open.

2007-02-09 03:04:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

For gay, bisexual and lesbians out there, do you guys really believe that something, love, like the one in the movie can really exist in today's world? If yes, why and if no, why?

2007-02-09 03:03:16 · 18 answers · asked by kay 1

i recently had a friend tell me that she is bi curious, how would you define that?

2007-02-09 02:59:47 · 6 answers · asked by smcopeland16 3

What is your biggest pet peev?

2007-02-09 02:47:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this is long, but I really need some good advice….
Foreword: I am a lesbian but I am married so that my 6 year old son can have a family. That is another monster all in itself…I really need some advice on my problem below. Thanks in advance and refrain from being hateful…I really don't need it right now.
My husband and I split up for a bit. Actually a long bit. From December of 2003 until about January of 2005. Then I lost my job and we lost the house and I moved in with a woman that I worked with. I lived with her *Mandy* for about 2 months. It was a wonderful 2 months. I fell completely in love with her. She was awesome. All she had to do was touch me and I melted. So many times I wish I would have stayed with her. I was happy. I mean I was really happy. She was a little more butch than I would have normally liked..or gone for...but, damn she was incredible. I don't think that I could ever put down into words what a good person she truly was. I miss her so much, and not a day go by when I don't think of her.
She won't talk to me now. I understand. I was seeing her before I actually moved in with her. I would say it was about 3 months before I moved in. My husband and I were separated at the time and when he moved back in I couldn't stop seeing her. I couldn't. I know that I should have...but...we talked all the time. I saw her everyday at work. The way she smelled, her mannerisms, her smile...everything about her made me feel so at ease. Like that is where I was supposed to be. I felt alive again...like I was in my secret world again. Except this time I wasn't a secret and I didn't care. I mean, it was obvious when we were together that we weren't "friends" if you know what I mean. I was and I still am completely in love with her.
But, it's pretty much gone to sh!t. We don't talk anymore and if you ask the two of us, you would get two different stories. This is my side,
When I moved in she knew that I wasn't working and she knew that I didn't have any source of income other than my unemployment. She told me not to worry about it, as long as I buy our (mine and my sons) own food and help with water and electric it was OK. So, I did just that. I saw the bills and we didn't cause much of an increase at all. We shared a bedroom, although most of the time Mandy and I shared her room. The only times I stayed in the room with my son was when he was scared or something of that nature.
Night after night I heard him cry that he missed his daddy. It was so hard to watch him cry like that. He had just gotten used to him being there again, and now...once again...he was gone. So, I talked to my husband and we decided to work things out to give our son a family again.
Mandy wan not very impressed with this at all and began being short with me the remaining time I was there. I understand. I probably would have been to. We were starting to get very close and then I drop this bombshell on her. To make matters worse, she was very hard to get to know...she had her guard up and finally let it down only to fu So, upon moving out, I told her that I wanted to give her something for everything that she had done for me. I meant it. She knew that I didn't have anything to really give her, so I wrote her two checks. Both were for $300 that she agreed to wait to cash until I found employment and got caught up on my bills. She knew that it would be a minimum of at least 3 months. But, that was OK. She didn't have a problem with it. Well I moved out towards the end of March (last year).
I was friends with someone that was on her softball team and one night my husband, my son and I went up to her house. Once we got there she told us that she had a game that night. She tried to call the coach and tell her that she couldn't make it, but if she didn't show the team wasn't going to be able to play. I immediately went into overload as I couldn't wait to see Mandy, but at the same time didn't want her to see me with my husband. So, I told my friend that I couldn't go. We went back and forth for about 1/2 hour and she finally talked me into it. It was so good to see Mandy again, but I could tell she was pissed for me even going. I didn't want to, but we had just drove over an hour to get my friends and I wasn't about to just turn around and drive home. I wanted so bad to talk to her and let her know that my relationship with my husband wasn't all that it appeared. I still want to be friends; I still wanted to hang out with her.
Shortly after this incident I received a noticed to appear in small claims court. Yeah, after she saw me, she sued me for the money. The money that she agreed to wait on. The same money that she told me NOT to give her in the first place. WOW. That is all that I could say. Well that forced me into bankruptcy. I know it was only a total of $600 but that was on top of everything else I had piled up after being out of work for 4 months. My husband doesn't make crap, so his income really didn't do anything but keep us from being homeless. I don't blame her. I know she was just being vindictive. Hell, I know I hurt her and I might have done the same thing had I been in her shoes.
So now my bankruptcy has been accepted and I am finally paying everything off. I filed the Chapter 13 so I still pay everything back. I was going to file 7, but it's my debt, I incurred it and it's my responsibility to pay it back. It's not anyone's fault but my own that I was in the financial situation I was in. Finally my financial situation has gotten completely back on track.
She doesn't know it, but next month (I have to wait for next month due to some bills coming up…and I don't know about you…but $1000.00 is a lot of money to me) I am going to send her $1000.00. I just wish I could be there when she gets it. I know it doesn't make up for everything, but it's all I can do. Maybe this will help her realize that I really did/do care about her. I miss her so much. I don't have to give her anything...legally I mean. I claimed the $600 that I did owe her in the bankruptcy and she never filed a claim on it. So, really legally I don't owe her anything. My husband doesn't even know that I am sending it to her. And, honestly other than her...no one will know (except for you guys here).
I don't think that I am trying to buy her back or anything like that. I just want to set things right. I don't know what other way to do it. Maybe if I do this she will realize that I really honestly wasn't trying to fu What else can I do? I miss her so much. Not a day goes by that I don't think about her. I miss everything about her. When I think about her, I feel like someone is physically ripping my heart out. I can't get over her. Have you ever heard Dave Matthews Band "Say Goodbye"? That was her song for me. I don't know how to either make this go away, or somehow I don't know…
I feel like I am going crazy…any advice?

2007-02-09 02:46:12 · 10 answers · asked by Melanie 1

I've read abit about the process and about its effects
and I believe it will be perfect for our relationship.
No, he is not part of this decision (and yes, I expect
wrathfull comments because of it).

Has anyone tried this? Which of the varied methods
have you used? What did you find successful?

I plan on working with underwear at first, and then
pushing him into gender neutral clothes at first, but
what ploy should I best use?

And what have people done about hormones?

And because people will want to know why...
he is abusive, domineering and generally
a pain in the posterior ... and I love him
dearly. Its time to take the marriage
into my own hands. It will also help control
silly money spending, gambling and
drinking.

This will take a bit of feminine wiles since
he seems to have stopped thinking with
anything other than his member.

Think of him as being on a testosterone
binge... Or something.

2007-02-09 02:35:29 · 3 answers · asked by Julie E 2

It is hard enough to find one guy who wants to get married! Just imagine how hard it is going to be to find two... So even if all states allow it, I think the numbers will be really small... What do you think?

2007-02-09 02:34:23 · 11 answers · asked by Rona9 2

I am kinda seeing this guy and before things go much further I want to find out if he's into drugs (because I'm not) and if we will be compatible in the bedroom. How do I breach these subjects without offending or making him think I am a sex maniac?

2007-02-09 02:33:13 · 6 answers · asked by Ronald 2

I'm just curious to know if ex's usually go back to you? I'm in a situation like this, and I've finally given up and decided to move on, my ex gf got use to me clinging on and always being there, but I'm sick and tired of being someone's doormat! My ex has moved on as well, but I agreed to still be a friend (I know, dumb), but I don't call or even text my ex anymore. My ex has made it clear that she's with someone else (even though my ex cheated on her current gf with me), and said she's trying to have a faithful relationship now. (yea right), my ex has ALWAYS had a problem staying faithful. The "faithfulness" will prob last for about a month or two, but I know my ex better than anyone. I'm just curious from other's experience, if you've gone through these "games" with an ex, it's like one minute they want you, then the next it's goodbye..what gives? Do they usually come back later, once they know you've moved on and want nothing with them???

2007-02-09 02:30:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-09 02:27:04 · 11 answers · asked by xx or xy¿Ø↔♀♂♥ 4

why do you good girls like bad girls such as myself?

2007-02-09 02:18:10 · 11 answers · asked by Hen 3

2007-02-09 02:16:53 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous