I went out with this girl on a couple of dates and I fell head over heels for her: smart, beautiful, sassy and lots of fun. On the fourth date just before we were going to make love she told me she had to tell me something, "I'm a male to female transexual". I was shocked and confused, but I loved her so much that I didn't wanna hurt her, so we actually had sex (orally and anally). Her body was exactly like a body's girl (but with male genitalia). It was more of an experience for me than anything else. I'm still sexually attracted to her. Is that normal? Please don't be harsh if you don't think it is.
2007-02-09 04:05:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There's no such thing as normal. Showing love towards another consenting adult is a beautiful thing. There's nothing wrong with that. It looks like you two have got a good thing going. Just enjoy the relationship and don't worry about what's "right" or "wrong" according to someone else's morals/religion or what's "normal."
Oh, and you don't need to dumb down your question with the word shemale. The intelligent people here get what you're asking and many transwomen find the term shemale derogatory.
2007-02-09 07:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by carora13 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What is normal? So, you like her. So, what?
The big questions are where is this relationship going? She isn't going to bear your children. Is that something you wanted in your life? What if she was outed in a crowd, would you stand up for her? Would you protect her? Can you deal with that?
What I'm getting at is if you can't be there when she needs you then don't lead her on. That goes for anyone anywhere regardless of their orientation.
2007-02-09 04:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by allisoneast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with that. As long as you didn't hurt yourself, the other person and you were safe, then it's A-OK. I think it was Sigmund Freud that said that the only abnormal sexual behavior is none at all. After that, it's only a matter of preference and degree.
2007-02-09 04:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by eviltruitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been very daring and would try most anything once except for scat and watersports or anything that doesn't draw too much blood. However, the thought of bedding a chick with a dick is too weird. But hey, too each his own. Maybe he/she is hot. I can't knock it till I try it but I dont think that will be anytime soon. Bottom line; if you are happy, that's all that really matters.
2007-02-09 04:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a ftm transgendered (no operations) and I have very masculine mannerisms, my fiancee is your "average" lesbian, but loves the fact that I'm tg, I think those feelings are normal, and so are yours. Lay off the labels.
Love live life.
2007-02-09 05:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you think of very beautiful girls other than this.
YOu seem smart and can get over this.
Do you think it can be long and your love is eternal then she is the best
2007-02-09 04:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by suma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it was nice for you because you were already falling in love with her. I'd say just do what ever you feel makes you happy.
2007-02-09 04:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not normal to call someone you love a "shemale" thats a derogatory term and i can not believe she lets you call her that.
if i were her id have smacked the crap out of you for calling me that. she is a woman so call her a "her", "she","female","woman") or any other normal female term.
2007-02-09 04:19:05 · answer #8 · answered by KellyJeanne 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think its normal. I also think that you may be a little bi sexual or bi currious and theres nothing wrong with that
2007-02-09 04:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by 女性ウルバリン 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as long as you like it and love her and she likes it and loves you, its absolutely normal.
Good luck and enjoy yourselves.
2007-02-09 04:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋