I'm just curious to know if ex's usually go back to you? I'm in a situation like this, and I've finally given up and decided to move on, my ex gf got use to me clinging on and always being there, but I'm sick and tired of being someone's doormat! My ex has moved on as well, but I agreed to still be a friend (I know, dumb), but I don't call or even text my ex anymore. My ex has made it clear that she's with someone else (even though my ex cheated on her current gf with me), and said she's trying to have a faithful relationship now. (yea right), my ex has ALWAYS had a problem staying faithful. The "faithfulness" will prob last for about a month or two, but I know my ex better than anyone. I'm just curious from other's experience, if you've gone through these "games" with an ex, it's like one minute they want you, then the next it's goodbye..what gives? Do they usually come back later, once they know you've moved on and want nothing with them???
2007-02-09 02:30:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I hope not,I could not keep my exgirl friend in clothes,neither could anyone else,she was a nude dancer.
2007-02-09 02:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by blakree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I actually have a couple of situations like this... One being my G/F and one just being an "Ex" but who is still like my best friend, we just messed, and messed things up. Anyway, when my ex cheated on me, I had kicked her out a couple of times, WE always came back around, it does take 2. You have to let her know you still care as well. Even if it's just to text her/email/or call her and say "I just hope your doing okay" If she has a problem with being faithful, then I say move on, b/c who says she's going to be faithful with you if you two end up back together? My girlfriend came back, we have been together almost a year, and everything is great now, we are pretty much on the same level of understanding.
My friend on the other hand... same issues... I was always "clingy" to her, as well as her to me, but I opened up more, and even when it wasn't my fault, I always came back around, and pretty much apologized for everything. I pretty much kissed her as*. Well, now we have not talked in almost 3 days because she said I got an attitude with her and I can assure I DIDN'T. So, I backed off, and I will wait for her to come around, or wait a few more days, and just text her asking her how everything is going... I hope I gave you some adive... I would just back off a little, but also show her care at the same time :)
Good luck girl!
Dixiexccoach05@aol.com
2007-02-09 03:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a firm believer that it all comes down to the sex. If the sex is good between the two of you, than a relationship can be rekindled. You did mention that she cheated on her new girl friend with you, so that should say something about her still having feelings for you somewhere.
It just has to run it's own course. Maybe just kicking it at the house, then sex.(but don't be afraid to speak the thruth during sex.If you love her or miss her, than say it during sex.)There's nothing like allowing that moment to clense your soul and air out everything.Maybe she will feel the same way and she'll be willing to express it,especially during that intense moment.
2007-02-09 03:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Mahogany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An ex should always remain an ex.
I would never resume any sort of a relationship with an ex, but it's easier for me because I've forgotten where I hid their bodies. But, that's a different story.......muahahahaha.
2007-02-09 03:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They usually do come back, claiming that they want friendship...although it's possible, a friendship with an ex is always a little hard.
2007-02-09 02:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They usually come back, expecially if you have a history of breaking up and making up...I refuse to be "friends" with an ex...Once its over its over! There is a reason they're an "EX"!!
2007-02-09 02:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by HONEY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes they come back, they usually want friendship...but mine tried to get back with me but it gets hard to stay friends with a ex.
2007-02-09 02:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by Crush06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if they found sopmeone better or are just unhappy and want you back. varies by person
2007-02-09 02:43:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good God I certainly hope not!!
2007-02-09 02:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by behrmark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋