Cultures & Groups - 6 October 2007

I need help, Im a Bi-Sexual. i really want to tell my parents because they think im gay. It's weird because i know im not gay, but i do get turned on by guys and girls. My parents arnt really the liberal. Mostly my dad. I dont know how to tell them, but i am tired of keeping it in and hiding it. The weird this is, is that i hate myself for being Bi, if there was a way to turn hetro, i would do anyting for it; but i know there is no possible way without killing another part of you, to turn hetro. So what I am really asking is, is it worth it to tell my parents and how should I brin g it up?

2007-10-06 14:37:18 · 8 answers · asked by Creefer S 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

my wife is bisexual and we cant find any good dating sites for her any suggestions as for were we can find good ones online

2007-10-06 14:33:44 · 3 answers · asked by thumper 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2007-10-06 14:25:56 · 3 answers · asked by MS. DC 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

we give the male patients Viagra in the evening. Do you know why?

2007-10-06 14:17:54 · 19 answers · asked by Yoda 4 in Senior Citizens

With all the different possible views in the world, doesn't it seem unfair to teach children what to believe? also, it seems that it kind of creates a self for the child, instead of the child becoming himself. for instance, the pledge of allegiance, prayers, church/religion altogether, racism, etc etc. Isn't this just making the child think what you want, and eventually becoming whatever you want him/her to become?
I don't know. It just seems kind of wrong to me.
Any views on this?

2007-10-06 13:57:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

If a man has sex with another man, or if a woman has sex with another woman, then no one is hurt as long as they are both consenting adults. And if someone chooses to transition from male to female or from female to male, the act itself doesn't hurt anyone (though when the person is in a relationship, the partner can be hurt by it, but that's a different story). So why is it a sin?

2007-10-06 13:39:39 · 23 answers · asked by GirlInside 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

i told my family that i was bi and they freaked out...there were so mean to me..my twin told me that i am not his sister and my mom really didn't say anything but they way she looks at my says it all..im so upset..how do i go on living like this im only 15 so i can't move out...help......

2007-10-06 13:34:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2007-10-06 13:32:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

My girlfriend and I have been together for 21 weeks now. I love her dearly - I have never loved anyone like I love her, and I feel so incredibly blessed to have her in my life. However, recently things have been going down hill between us, and I know that she is contemplating ending our relationship. This is absolutely heartbreaking for me - I'm slowly coming out as bisexual to my friends (something I previously had absolutely no courage to do so). I'm contemplationg coming out to my family and was even considering asking how they would feel about me arranging to meet up with her (we're in an internet relationship). I was considering asking her for a deeper level of commitment - to this point, both of us have denied our feelings to those who don't know about our sexuality. I am wanting to let everyone know the truth - I've even gone so far as contemplating finding a method to publicly commit to her (not even given the laws here). Am I making the right decision or am I moving too fast?

2007-10-06 13:13:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

It's a family place. I don't think it's right. I even have several gay people as friends and the majority of them don't believe it's right. Some of them actually go though. When disney tried sending out letters of warning to families going to visit that week, gays tried suing disney. Why can't they do it somewhere that's not family oriented? You have to admit... even if you're gay... its really wrong.

2007-10-06 13:09:43 · 21 answers · asked by Answer me this 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2007-10-06 13:08:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I'm not really into the labeling, but i do listen to more gothic music and from the darker clothes and my personal outlook...Unfortunalty some peopleI labeled emo...Even though I'm not exactly for any of ideas of emo...

2007-10-06 13:03:20 · 13 answers · asked by novagirl92 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

urh.
thanks.

2007-10-06 12:58:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

involved in adoption? If it is too personal I understand if not many want to answer. I'd hope if you have a story to relate and do not want to use your normal avatar you would consider doing it in disguise. I don't want anyone to talk about a deep issue like this if they'd rather remain private. We might not want something this personal to be common knowledge over the internet. After the answers I will edit to explain why I ask this question. Those of us older had a stigma attached to this situation that does not seem as relevant today.

2007-10-06 12:56:08 · 21 answers · asked by Southern Comfort 6 in Senior Citizens

Ok so I've been having these "feelings" for as long as I can remember. I'm really attracted to females. I even love lesbian porn. But the thing is... I'm only attracted to females sexually. I wouldn't want a relationship with a female. I wouldn't want to date a female. I love men. I love having a boyfriend. What is this? Have you ever heard of this? Is something just wrong in my head or something

2007-10-06 12:41:20 · 5 answers · asked by Answer me this 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

my friend told me as far as he could remember,it was since he knew it since he was 5.he always masturbated though there's no semen coming out until he turned 14.

2007-10-06 12:35:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well." Tommy - age 6

2007-10-06 12:35:50 · 15 answers · asked by kayboff 7 in Senior Citizens

If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,"

Nikka - age 6 (we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)

2007-10-06 12:33:19 · 10 answers · asked by kayboff 7 in Senior Citizens

"Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen." Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)

2007-10-06 12:30:35 · 9 answers · asked by kayboff 7 in Senior Citizens

"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired." Terri - age 4

2007-10-06 12:27:40 · 19 answers · asked by kayboff 7 in Senior Citizens

I lost my hearing completely at age 26, 10 years ago. I had no help with rehab the doc gave me tranqs and the social worker told me to 'learn to lip read, cos your gonna need it'.
It took me some time to accept the situation but i have worked hard to try to become accepted in the Deaf community, they are very nice and friendly towards me but i am not yet fluent in BSL and its difficult. I feel stuck in the middle. Deaf people think im hearing and hearing people think im deaf. The only other deafened in my area are the oldies.
Its all getting me down.....and i feel a freak

2007-10-06 12:26:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in People with Disabilities

"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs." Chrissy - age 6

2007-10-06 12:25:51 · 12 answers · asked by kayboff 7 in Senior Citizens

even live bugs. i just couldnt get my head around eating a live roach. the explotion of puss in my mouth and the feeling of it being alive in my mouth would make me puke. is this a only an american attidue twards food?

2007-10-06 12:25:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other." Karl - age 5

2007-10-06 12:18:14 · 20 answers · asked by kayboff 7 in Senior Citizens

"When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth." Billy - age 4

2007-10-06 12:15:06 · 14 answers · asked by kayboff 7 in Senior Citizens

is it more for practical reasons or more of a hobby?

2007-10-06 12:14:32 · 19 answers · asked by Wickwire 5 in Senior Citizens

Why do we have BET ( Black Entertaiment Televison ) and theres is not a WET ( White Entertaiment Television )?

Please its not my intention to discriminate or to start a fight over here is just couriosity....I don't know if I spell it right...

2007-10-06 12:08:23 · 11 answers · asked by Bryan M 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

did you like it?

2007-10-06 12:07:10 · 31 answers · asked by Wickwire 5 in Senior Citizens

Anybody have a favorite sport they like to watch on TV?

2007-10-06 11:56:47 · 23 answers · asked by Wickwire 5 in Senior Citizens

DON'T worry too much about what you should say to people who are gay or lesbian. Just follow Jesus' advice when He said, "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you". Treat them like you would anyone else.

DON'T talk or think about gay and lesbian people as though they were all the same. There are gay and lesbian Republicans, Democrats, and others who don't vote at all, just like in the heterosexual population. A few gay people are "radical" while most others are as mainstream as apple pie. Some gays and lesbians are alike, others are not alike at all.

DO spend some time to talk to gay and lesbian people. Drop your fear of them. At first, a simple "hello, how are you" may be your goal. Afterwards, you may want to get to know more gay and lesbian people personally and invite them into your life and home.

2007-10-06 11:56:29 · 11 answers · asked by Purple 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender